OK here you go something bout me...I am a well established Loan Officer at a prominant company. I own my own home as any man should at this age. I am also done with the dating of bar flys and crazy women thats the reason I am here. I am looking for a good woman or my soul mate if there really such a thing. I enjoy the little things in life. I believe that good things come to those who wait. I consider my self a good person and great guy. I have a small group of friends, but always willing to let that group grow.

First date: If it is with somebody i know and really like, then it would be all out. I would do everything possible to surprise her and to impress her. Online is a bit different; it is nice to meet in a public place and just see how the chemistry works out and if the attraction is still there. It is fun to play pool on the first date so there isn't so much pressure to just sit and come up with things to say or ask. The second date is the key for online dating in my opinion because if you make it to the second date, then the chemistry is there and it is time to impress!