I'd like to meet someone who I can feel chemistry with. Sensuality is important to me when combined with love and affection. The lyrics to the song I put on my profile pretty much sums up what I want with someone.

I'm a very fair person, you'll always know where you stand with me, my life is an open book. I never ask for something that I don't have to give in a relationship.

Honesty is an absolute must, I am extremely honest. If you feel the need to lie, or you think it's 'okay' under any circumstance, we won't be compatible.

I'd like someone loving, kind to people and animals, has his life together, is hygenic, takes reasonable care of himself and is not self destructive in thoughts or actions.

Even though I have no desire to give birth to a child, that doesn't mean I hate children. I work a second job as a counselor to abused kids, and I was a foster parent for 3 years.

I also am very spiritual, but not religious or dogmatic. Quantum physics most closely resembles my idea of the 'more' that's out there that I have worked so hard to connect to.

I'm not a jock or a camper. I love nature, but I won't sleep on the ground, nor do I bike ride, climb rocks, or go for hikes with 60 pounds strapped to my back, sorry. I guess you can say I'm more moderate in my activity level. I also don't ride on motorcycles, if you ride, that's fine, I just won't get on with you. Both of my sisters are permanently maimed due to motorcycle accidents, so hopefully you understand why I don't ride. I love day hikes and long walks, I garden, keep a clean house, and go to the ocean a lot. I love to travel.

I pretty much live in jeans, though I clean up well when the occasion merits. I'm a 'girly girl', I take care of myself, have nice nails and feet, and wear makeup and have my hair look nice. The pictures on my profile are typical of my everyday look.

I'm liberal, and would not be compatible with someone who is a bigot.

I have a very positive happy outlook on life. I'm a loving, kind, strong, independent, highly intelligent woman. I'm very romantic, but not clingy or demanding. I'm also very practical, logical, and earthy. I can have a raunchy, sarcastic sense of humor at times.

I appreciate intelligence in men. However, if you are someone who feels the need to act superior to a mate and cannot appreciate a difference in life experience and approaches, we won't be a match.

I have a career, and am pretty settled in life, I would want the same in a mate. I would love to find someone that I can blend my life path with. Is it possible that person is you?

--Because so many men have asked, yes, this is how I currently look, these photos are not 20 years old, okay?

For a first date just meeting for coffee or a meal is great. Nothing fancy, just someplace where we can chat and see if there's an attraction.

Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be married