If you’re going to read more about me, put the kettle on!

I love rainbows, waterfalls and sunsets

I was once told I could see the whole world in a seed – I can certainly look beyond the obvious and see the bigger picture

I love to be on or near water

I have many interests – physical, artistic and intellectual

I prefer people to things

Good manners cost nothing, so I use them all the time

I’m into anything that develops the mind, body or spirit

I like to walk in the rain

I’m not narrow-minded – about anything

We’ve all been hurt, but it doesn’t stop me loving

I love trying new things – have only just flown for the first time, and have many more ‘firsts’ that I want to experience

I’d love to try scuba-diving, archery, horse-riding, sailing, and tantric sex

I love man-hugs

I'm a very good kisser

I’m very caring and spiritual

I read A LOT

I don’t like breakfast in bed, but love coffee and croissants with someone special

I’m very spontaneous

I do a great massage with aromatherapy oils (and love to be on the receiving end of them too!)

I like to watch bats flying and deer running

I’m very open and honest and appreciate others who are too

Family values and personal ethics are very important to me. People trust me with their secrets because they know I’ll never betray their trust.

I’m sensitive, and I like being kind to people

I love being kissed down my neck and on to my shoulder

I don’t like being woken up from sleep, so don’t expect me to respond, lol!

I’m more of a lark than an owl

I read runes, tarot, crystals etc

I’m a counsellor with a degree in psychology (and self-employed)

I’m very accepting, and expect others to be too

I don’t need constant attention, but constant awareness would be nice

I don’t mind a little untidiness, but not dirt

You won’t turn me on by lack of hygiene, burping (from either end) or by being anything other than a gentleman

I’m happy with talking dirty, but let’s keep it to the bedroom, eh? Sexual swear words out of context are a turn-off

I love to stroke men’s hairy forearms

I’m very tactile generally

I'm not into casual sex - longer-term relationships are so much more rewarding

My favourite flowers to look at are lilies and gerberas - to smell, freesias

I’m as happy with egg and chips as I am with a meal in a restaurant (and fish and chips at the coast is just fab!)

I detest all of the major political parties – they’re more interested in policies and control than people or the planet

I am more eloquent in writing than verbally (in common with Shakespeare, may I add!)

I can do many practical jobs, but I’m not a good gardener

I’m mainly vegetarian and I do transcendental meditation

I can’t abide injustice

I have an air-hockey table

I don’t smoke – and wouldn’t get involved with anyone who did

I want to meet someone who can stimulate my mind as well as my body

Oh, and I'm unlikely to make the first move and message you (had too many knockbacks - don't know how you guys do it, you have my admiration!).

I would be honest but polite if you messaged me and I wasn't interested, but I do look forward to hearing from you.

Siyla xx

What about a takeaway coffee sitting under a tree? Watching the rain fall all around us and not caring because we're too busy finding out all about each other.

Male
Age between 41 and 65
Live in United Kingdom
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be looking for Hang Out
Must not be looking for Talk/E-mail
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be looking for Activity Partner
Must not do drugs
Must not be married
Must not smoke