I am currently here only for the forums. I am not looking for anyone but to post on the forums.

I recently started again a relationship with a great woman. We had ups, we had downs. We even had a very tragic split that ripped us to pieces but we got back together and worked very hard on the relationship. Then something happened, she was diagnosed with breast cancer. We tried to fight this thing together. Make no mistake about it, Chemo is the most devastating thing I have ever seen or experience, but the Steroids and Chemo completely made her go through Roid Rage. So ended our relationship. Recently we got together again, and became aware of our short comings and are working at making things work.

One more thing. I had a great experience with children. So if you think that guys are not going to like you because you have small kids, think again, some of us think that is the most awesome thing there is.

Below is my old profile. The only reason I am leaving it here is so people, guys and girls, can see that if you aim at something and try and don't compromise, you may get exactly what you want. So good luck to everyone.


OLD PROFILE (Not active – Not looking)
I like outgoing girls that can keep up with me. Somebody who is intellectually stimulating, is not afraid to voice her opinions and enjoys a conversation over a glass of wine, appreciates a good fire in the winter, a rainy day in the summer, the chill of the fall and spring. I work in the creative side of marketing, so you will see me producing a commercial, writing management materials, even cutting some music for some promo piece. I am also an avid cyclist, so yes, I shave my legs and wear spandex.
You are not a religious zealot, are open to other cultures, ideas, beliefs. You'd like to shake hands with the Dalai Lama. You have it in your wish list to go to Prague, Paris and then go through Italy with nothing but a back pack, a taste for good food and wine and a desire to discover. You are athletic and care about yourself, even though deep inside you are an artist, full of crazy ideas, some you have made a reality, others you are just waiting for the right moment to let them out.
You will keep me challenged and energized. I will keep you in your toes. Can you handle it?

I sit at a sidewalk cafe. It is still windy and slightly cold. The tables are tight, the place is packed with the usual mixture of chess players, late afternoon coffee drinkers, or those seeking an early drink. In the background behind some three story building with an Art Nouveau style you can see the top of the Eiffel Tower. The aromas of different foods float on the air, Moroccan, French, Spanish. You walk across the street directly to where I am sitting. You've seen my picture, so you recognize me and smile. I smile back. You are wearing a long black leather coat, tightly clasped to keep the wind away. You extend your hand and say hello. I look up at you and ask you if you found the tickets and hotel accommodating. You say yes. This is better than meeting in some bar in Atlanta, you comment. I say, sit, and pull out a chair. Next to us a couple notice that we are speaking in English. I try to say something in my horrible French. They smile at us. You sit. Then I ask you the password. Are you ready to jump? And you provide the secret response, Only when trust is there. I extend my hand. You extend your hand. Our eyes lock and everybody disappears, we touch.