Recently widowed, 165# 5'9" - athletic figure with grey hair in a ponytail, financially secure, an accomplished pianist, live and own property at the water, have a graduate science degree, like lobster, crab etc., but dislike fish or barbeque sauce with my spare ribs. I'm openminded other than with religion which has more to do with ritual than with god. I keep my word and confidences, am honest or othwise keep my mouth shut, and dislike head games and people who knowingly or otherwise habitually twist the truth.
My Ideal Person:
Looking for a honest long term relatioship with someone likewise not overweight, educated or at least interested and curious, 40 plus, young in heart if not in age, doesn't overdue the makeup, looks good in jeans or a skirt(I know - eyes of the beholder), and does not wear granny clothes. She could be looking to get out of a bad relationship (as long as it's not an established behavior pattern) and needs to be discreet, etc.. It's the person that counts - would hate to miss the right train.