| | WARNING! Reader discretion is advised. The following profile isn’t for the thin skinned or faint of heart. If you are, HIT the BACK button! Seriously I’m not here with some eloquently written profile that everybody will love and want to respond to. My main goal is to have it appeal to ONE person; if I offend anybody along the way guess you didn’t think I was serious. If you can’t handle an open, up front and honest guy with a mind along with a point of view, GO BACK. Gee would that be considered an oxy moron? Not trying to be harsh here, but it will appear that way to some, just trying to save all parties involved some valuable time. As life is short, and I’m living it, this is your last chance. The bar scene was old a long time ago, and this is getting old too. Don’t know if I’m disenchanted; disenthralled, disconcerted or just been dissed one too many times? However I’m far from being disingenuous! Yes it’s nice being able to look at the profiles in your PJs in the safety of your home 24/7. So the online/dating thing, to some it’s a game? To some it’s the security of being behind a screen and not in person, along with not being rejected. With that said, we’re both here for the same reason? We’re both adults so let’s act like it? Say what you mean, mean what you say? Not interested, DONE easy see that wasn’t so tough? Whatever happened to the living by the Golden Rule? You’re probably sitting there thinking to yourself, that wasn’t too bad. Well that was just the fluff, cheap filler if you will. Still with me, few caveats for you then...
So the whole kids subject, if you already have you mind set on not having any I’m not your man either as that is a two person decision. Not that I’m dead set 100% in having kid/s or in addition too, I’m saying that it is two people making life/lives/choice/s. Being able/not to is a totally different story. Speaking about life choices, I’m under educated in the classroom but not in the school of life which to some it’s a deal breaker. Subsequently, if you’re going to be pretentious enough to not give somebody a chance based on one check marked box I’m not for you either. Oh yeah lessons learned ZERO drama please, if I want that I’ll watch primetime or daytime. If you’re wondering where/why don’t I have pics posted? Been there done that on the other site, I’m trying something different here just ask?
I’m not one to email I/M for days on end, then to chat on the phone for days on end; then eventually do a meet n greet. Why waste each other’s time, get it done and over with to see if there’s CHEMISTRY, ATTRACTION, SPARKS etc. I mean I do so know you have to chat on the phone to tell if you’d like to meet, feel safe, or tell if there is ultimately there’s a mutual interest. These words and screen can hide certain things to a degree, meaning intellect, emotions etc. you don’t know if I wrote this or not, or how long it took me to do so. Or even if every other word I used spell checker on hear LOL! The phone you can at least have the inkling to tell smarts, hearts and a pulse if you know what I mean. Yet still in person is better to see the emotion, the eyes light up when one is passionate about something.
You’ve come this far, how do I keep you intrigued or from hitting your back button. How do I make a profile that doesn’t make me sound like I’m self-centered, egotistical, yet get all my enduring qualities listed for Well I’m a character in my own right, divorced and have been for a few years. So why you ask, I’ll share just ask. No kids, but I have the “girls” my dogs. Still reading I can be impatient, stubborn, sarcastic and persistent the last two could be pluses all depends on the situation. My finer points are caring, generous, humorous, creative, witty, driven, assertive, passionate, philosophical and romantic too. These aren’t all but it gives you a better idea to who I am at this moment. This is just a snap shot of my mind, but by no means defines me as a whole by any stretch of the imagination. With that said again I have a mind I use it speak it, I’m not shy nor am I going to pretend to be somebody you want me to be. Life is to short to precious not to live it. A few of my finer points are translated into things I like to do, creativity comes out cooking, photography, woodworking, along w/ remodeling my 127yr old home. Weather permitting love landscaping/gardening or just yard work. Generosity comes in involvement w/ 2 local non-profits. I love the seasons first would be winter, spring & fall tied, then summer. Winter w/ snow activities watching it fall, or just a relaxing evening around a fire w/ family & friends. Spring outdoors, from biking, running, taking the girls on long walks, & gardening. Fall would be its warm days cool nights, leaves changing colors, fires or sitting out on deck with friends & family, to watching the stars. Summer’s for fairs, festivals, farmers/flea markets, parades, swimming, beach, bbqs and picnics w/ family & friends. Me what I want friend, lover, confidant, a shoulder an ear, a lap to rest my weary head, to know they’ll still be there when I awake.
Still here, relationships are work they’re not a walk in a park. Nor should they be an up hill battle from the start. But it’s all about the pluses and the minuses the balance 50/50 40/60 75/25. Its knowing when if you’re down the other will be there for you and you them, and so on? This sounds so perfect? Aren’t diamonds supposed to be close to perfection? Theoretically a perfect relationship could be compared to a diamond as they’re multi faceted, and they’re strong. The better the diamond the better the 4-cs same holds true in a relationship. Except you have Commitment, Communication, Compassion and Compromise. Speaking of which COMMUNICATION has U N I in the middle I understand that, but it takes two not one. Yes I want that someone to make LOVE to, too be PASSIONATE, INTIMATE with and to bare my soul. I want to find the air that I breathe, yet I know I can live with out her. I want an equal some one to stimulate me intellectually, emotionally and physically. Yes beauty fades and dumb is forever. We are creatures and do need that lil bit of attraction to get things going, I know that but it’s about the whole woman not just the outside. After all this, I still don’t know what or who I want. But I do know what I don’t. |
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