I work at a residentual treatment center for kids. My 24 to 26 kids on my unit, not only have one or more psychiatric issues, but are also mental retarded or autistic or both. The kid's age run from 11 to 18, both boys and girls. They are special kids that require special but structured love. Im not looking for a treatment environment after work! (ha) I've been widowed for eight years, was married almost for 30 years. Have plenty of friends, looking for a special lady. I like kind and considerate people who care about others. Looking for a lady who still can play, laugh and not take life to serously all the time. Must have a sense of humor. I love to laugh. I love to dance, book stores, art, caring people. I have a wonderful daughter (twenty seven going on forty and had better life choice skills at three) and a granddaughter with a second one on the way.

The initial meeting at Barns & Knobles Book store for sode or coffee to say hello and talk. Would not consider this a first date. The first date would be a Dinner at a place like the Cove, dancing afterwards, finish with a walk and talk on the beach. A second date would be a day trip to say Palm Beach's Worth Ave, to walk through all the little specialty shops and brunch. Or a day trip to visit Cumberland Island National Sea shore followed by a nice dinner on the way back. Flowers, wine and poetry might be involed also. (Who knows!)