Im a straight forward, regular type guy. I've been single a long time, not by choice, just cant seem to find the right one. I've been married twice, 7 years then 8 years. I've been single now for about 12 years. Of course I've had relationships during that time they just haven't worked out for the long haul. I take care of myself in all aspects of my life so Im not looking for a mother, cook, house keeper, buddy, laundry maid, xxxx buddy, I seek a true companion, mate, lover, best friend. I stay very busy so I dont have time to dog you 24-7 and I wont text you 50 times a day. But I love to sit and chat when we both have time. During the summer months I spend alot of time on my motorcycle, its part of one of the businesses I run. I take alot of day and over nite trips, I would hope that you would be able to go with me alot of the time, but when I go anyway you have to be able to understand. I like girly girls but they have to be just as comfortable sleeping in a tent and wishing we could find a shower. I dont look or act my age, I like to go out a couple of times a week, dining, dancing, drinking, hanging with friends, just what ever. I enjoy doing alot of different things and am not so set in my ways that Im not open to trying something different. I have a sharp wit and I think I'm funny. I'm really laid back most of the time, takes alot to get me out of sorts. I enjoy talking about more than just the weather and can fit into most social situations Please understand that I am a slim person and I dont have any problem with people that are average or have a few extra pounds but more than that it just doesnt do it for me. Sorry, so please be honest. I try to be straight forward and to the point so dont be afraid to ask me questions. The only questions that never get answered are the ones that are never asked. Dont worry about contacting me, I wont think anything more than you just wanting to know more. If your the person Ive been looking for what are you waiting for? P.S. If I've seen that you have viewed my profile or you wonder why I haven't contacted you more than likely it is due to distance. I just don't want to have a relationship that I have to spend every weekend driving an hour just to see you. I want one that is much more personal than that, grab a quick dinner, watch a movie, get a drink or two, just enjoy each others company more than weekends. I understand that most of you are just like me, family, friends, home, job where you live now. I try to look beyond the lust and into the future. Maybe I should add to my profile, must be willing to relocate. :)I've come back to what I've written several times thinking I must need to change something or add something and really I'm stumped. I've tried to make a few contacts, some have responded some have not. Can't help it that I'm not into really heavy women. Think long distance relationships are a waste of time, not looking to play the field, fill a score card or notch my bed. Just want a normal relationship with a normal women doing normal things. Guess that's abnormal?

Meet someplace known to both of us for coffee or drinks, just a quick encounter to see if we wanted to know more. Plus it would give us both an out. I'm not scared to talk on the phone, gotta warn ya, I can be quite chatty. Got most weekends free right now so I am trying to get some riding time in on my motorcycle, no it's not a Harley, it's an older model Honda that I restored and keep running. I'm self employed so sometimes I got money and sometimes I don't, nature of my business. I live a simple life, not into drama. I don't go to Mexico each year or snow skiing. I grew up around horses, cows and farm work so I'm not into that now. I smoke little cigars and I have no plans on quiting (although I know I should). I don't like to get up early and I tend to stay up late. I spent alot of time in the white collar world but now I'm just a blue collar guy. My hands are callused and my back is strong. I don't expect life to be easy and there is a price to pay for every choice we make. I'm not impressed by what the other guys got, stuff doesn't make you happy. Overall I'm not unhappy with my life I rather enjoy it. I have no controls in my life, other than a new Pug puppy that needs lots of attention, a concept that most people would never understand. Wanna spent the day together, go somewhere or out on a date I'm cool with it, have no expectations and we are never disappointed. Sparks will fly or they won't, it really is that simple.