Let me begin by giving the definition of a "cougar"....It's defined as a single, reasonably attractive middle-aged woman who seeks out and/or prefers the company of younger men. Let me say that I'm not looking for someone to support; "boy toys" are great but not what I'm looking for. Yes, I do prefer younger men but I also value maturity, responsibility and respect.

I am a 43-year-old drama free mother of three (24, 10 and 8) who has a lot to offer. I am witty, responsible, loyal, honest and trustworthy; however, I can also be a bit shy at first, and occasionally ornery. In essence, I’m a great catch. I've been told I look better in person than my pictures for all that's worth..:)

I am very down to earth but also classy. I've been told I have a great personality and try to find the best in everything. I'm a pretty average person, not psychotic or clingy, and have a great sense of humor. I'm a big Seinfeld, SNL, Mad TV and The Office fan. My favorite genre of books is true crime and my favorite types of music are country, pop and some rock.

The person I meet must not be a heavy drinker, smoker or do drugs (and yes, I do consider pot a drug). I hope to find someone that can make me laugh, has a good head on their shoulders and can be financially responsible. I believe a relationship is team work. I will pull my weight and would expect my partner to also. I enjoy cooking and am a one man woman and a family woman. I consider myself a very honest person and expect my partner to be as well. I would like to find someone to hang out with, go out and do various activities around town and who can also be a good friend as well as a partner. I have pictures posted and would appreciate the same in return.

I prefer younger men and am interested in 27-35, so please don't get upset if you contact me and I say that you are out of my age range, yes, it is only a number but we all have our personal preferences.

Of course, this really depends on what both parties want to do. I prefer to go out for drinks to get to know one another a bit first and take it from there.