Thank you for visiting. A friend who found his dream lady talked me signing up here. Most of my friends say I am quite a catch and wonder why bother with this site. I want to find a mate who finds me as special as I find her.

I have been and still am at heart a UC Bezerkeley hippy surfer lover woodworker Vietnam Vet biomedical engineer shaman motor cycle racer energy worker masseuse pilot DJ musician computer programmer inventor author analyst manager university instructor Mensa dropout tennis player chef brewmeister and now a modestly retired volunteer.

I prefer small steps to see if we hit it off, then maybe a BBQ at my home and maybe even sharing massages on one of the tables I engineered.