Instead of describing myself directly, I am outlining what I seek - visualize and verbalize it to the smallest detail and create it in your life. Ideally, you will feel the connection as you read further rather than simply marking off checklists.

I am not looking for 20 dates with 20 different people, having awesome sex and then on to the next conquest. What a good time and waste of time all in one. By now we have either sowed our oats or we have not, but you now know my intentions for this ad. I expect the same likewise.

First of all, I want to be with someone who knows how to laugh. Just so you know - most of the time I like to be playful and silly, if you don't like that please stop now.

I'm looking for someone to share in life's successes and someone who is strong enough to battle life's adversities. My belief: sorrow shared is halved, joy shared is doubled.

I want to be with someone who is genuinely real and nice, someone who practices Don Miguel Ruiz's philosophy outlined in The Four Agreements ~. All works with reason and creativeness, rather than drama.

Caring and understanding are qualities I possess, which means when in a relationship, there will be passion and feelings expressed. I am a positive person, a champion, and I want someone in my life that always sees the glass half full because I will always cheer you on in your life endeavors - expect to make space for me by your side - it will be that way.

I'm not perfect but I always do my best. I want someone who is the epitome of variety. I want someone worth spending my time with.

I want a partner who has good looks and more to offer, someone with strength and integrity. I enjoy those who are experts at carrying an intelligent conversation with great sense of humor, humility and personality. I am looking for one who can challenge me to focus on my goals.

Be a healthy, mature, smart, together woman.

Best friend, soul mate and lover. Too much to ask? Be careful for what you ask for - you just may get it!

BRING IT ON!

It's a surprise ;-)

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~ 1. Be Impeccable With Your Word
Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

2. Don't Take Anything Personally
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.

3. Don't Make Assumptions
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

4. Always Do Your Best
Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret.