hard to believe that nobody likes to chat or meet here ..may have to deleate myself & become a hermit .. i need new pics ...these r about a yr old & i'm about 30 lbs less than in the pics ..well over a year no takers ..i must be a steaming pile of it .. .if u wanna pic just ask i'll get it to you ( other than what is here .)i did talk to 1 girl a few times on the phone & she stood me up twice ..what a wounderful world dating is as an adult ..a guy puts his best foot forward & what does he get ???? sorry i have to be negitave in 10 yrs of dating ...just to clear the air ..i don't bowl or camp..sleepin with bugs & stuff don't appeal to me ..pool can be fun though ..1 more turn off...country music sux.. i work 1 night (sun.) and 5 afternoons a week & when i get time off i like to go out & have fun (haunted houses / go cart racing / hard core concerts or u make a suggestion ) ..as far as the long term thing goes it all starts with a date (if it don't work well no prob ) ..so it's not a problem to do dinner as a no strings kinda thing to meet someone and go from there ....i'm a single parent of a 13 yr old girl ..don't really act my age as i like mosh pits & such ...a quiet evening at home on my day off can be nice too and order take out or something ..the last pic is my pride & joy ... ...P.S. ..i'm not too much into sports ..but wrestling is ok .... by the way ...if you read this far my real name is jim ..& what ever you do ....DO NOT PLAY GAMES WITH ME !!!!!!!!!...P. S. ..if you feel the need to include pics of your pets ...keep fishing ..advertise yourself instead of things that you like to scurry around the house ..a cat is as far as i go ( cats r cool ) ...( at least you don't have to let them out & then clean up the yard afterwards ) ... ALERT/UPDATE ..i've actually met 3 nice girls here ..no matches yet though ..wounders never cease.. ....new update ..BeverlyJoy has STOOD ME UP ..what a lovely world we live in ..it was a no show / no call ..u gotta love dates like tht (NOT)....

a first date should be an early dinner in a nice place (casual)..where we could talk and get to know more about each other ... it should end with a nice hug ..(hopefully :) ) i am open to sugestions ...but a movie is not 1 of them ..not much communicating there ...( besides all the ppl there breath up the air & i go to sleep ) ...zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz...i do like to go to local clubs & check out some bands ..but please make a suggestion if i havn't listed something u like ...something new is allways good ( unless it's polkas or country ) lolol ...