UP DATE-11-10=09 Still looking for my last date and soul-mate, My pictures are 2-3yrs old I need to add new ones, especially since Sept I have lost over 50 pounds, and with the help of weight loss surgery I still should lose a few more pounds I never had the surgery to impress anyone or look better, with getting older and not having any health problems I didn't want any, so I decided after 20 yrs of dieting putting weight on and off, I would have WLS, and so far I feel great.

WROTE IN APRIL-09 Hi, I can honestly say I'm content with my life, and found myself, I have finally grown up,lol I'm not as gulible as I was, or will never let someone take my kindness for weakness, I can say no, and mean it, I have no problem with being able to tell someone what I think, when ask what I want or where do you want to go, I can make a few suggestions, I use to let someone else decide for me or go along with whatever someone else wanted, I was always honest, but not with myself, I'm finally my own boss and it feels great, sometimes people can't believe I'm the same person, but in a good way.

I'm 46yr old, everyone says I'm in my mid 30's, cute and loveable, and I carry my weight well, never had any complaints, what can I say it is my charming, carefree, personality, they like, I may shock you at times, but, never bore you, I have been on a health kick lately, trying to become a healthier person, a partner wanting to lose weight and work-out would be a plus, but it really doesn't matter, either way, I'm pretty secure with who I am.

I'm a good christian, honest, truthful, one woman man, very much a romantic, spontaneous, youthful, playful, fun, person, two wonderful grown kids and one loveable granddaughter, and two sweet grandson's, I was married 25yrs, was a good mother/wife and never broke my wedding vowels, lied or cheated. I know what it takes to make a relationship work, I try never to judge someone, I'm always there to support a friend in need.

I don't like to be around drunks, cheaters, liars, abusive, or jealous men, been there and won't go there again, I won't date men who are married,(no exceptions) I think we all need are own space at times yet knowing we only have eyes for each other, I'm looking for a partner/lover/ best friend, wanting a loving relationship, I'm not a possession with a title to it, or something you bought or paid for.

I'm just a good woman, who is real, not afraid to admit when I'm wrong, but will stand my ground when I know I'm right, no one is perfect, we all have made mistakes, I hope I have learn from the ones I have made, but what would life be like in a perfect world, after all life is a learning experience at any age, and sometimes can be a lot of fun lol

I will always stand up for what is right and if it is wrong, it is wrong, I believe you do the right thing because it is the right thing to do, and finally your only as good as your word, say what you mean and mean what you say and do it.

I would like to meet a man who has some, oldfashion beliefs, good morales, has a wildside, honest, respects woman, and knows how to treat a princess, knowing he will always be treated like her prince, willing to trust her without alot of jealousy and never doubt her love for him, both will know most people only dream about this kind of love and trust.

I think our greatest assets in life are, family, god and good friends, being a good person, treating others like you would always want to be treated, I'm not out to impress anyone I'm just me, I'm easy to get along with, I own my home and live alone, I'm flexible, I don't need anyone's money, I'm financially secure, living a simple, happy, life, waiting for that special person.

I have always brought other's before me, and have a big heart to give to someone, I have several male friends that think I'm not good enough for anyone, no wonder they are still friends from childhood, but then again, they have never seen my ornery side or behind closed door's, oh, gosh, I hope they never see my profile, they would be shocked, they still see me like a younger sister.

My biggest pet peeve is lying, my mom always said you can tie the hands of a thief, but not the tongue of a liar, the truth may hurt at times, but a lie always leads to another lie, and after a while people believe the lie, most things can be forgiven, lies just violate trust/honesty, once that is broken in a relationship, it is over for me, I hope I haven't offended anyone by anything I wrote in my profile, I'm just being honest, thanks for reading my book lol, best wishes to all.

Somewhere nice and quiet where we can relax, talk and enjoy each others company, kinda like two friends meeting no time limit set or expects, except to respect and listen to one another.