For the record, I'm really only on here for the event forums (like camping and motorcycle riding). However, I'm always up for a good discussion and chat with a new friend from the area or even out of state. Locally, I'm looking for people to play golf, tennis, or paintball with. Overall, I'm just looking for people to ride motorcycles with or others to hang out at a nudist resort (Seriously, if that didn't make you think and chuckle, we probably won't get along because I have a very sarcastic sense of humor). My schedule used to be very hectic because of work and school, so I never had time to organize anything. I'm always looking for someone to pick up the reigns and say "hey, we're doing that on this day" so that I don't have to do anything more than show up! I'm very sarcastic and love to laugh. Time with me will leave your sides aching!

If you're interested in reading below, I've added some funny quiz results and come insight into my thinking about life and friendships. I felt it important to add because of the idoicy and selfishness that I see on a regular basis. I got tired of just sitting silently in the background, so happy reading.

IM: Matthew_Nole at the hoo
or: MNole87 on aim



Results from my "Love and Romance" test. It's an interesting read.

Personality Type: Leader
He's a strong, energized Leader—abounding with passion, persistence, and versatility—driven to make an impact on the world. He thrives on intensity and excitement and gravitates toward other strong-willed people. As a friend, he's fiercely loyal and would do anything to protect his loved ones.
(Not necessarily too far from the truth. I don't disagree.)

Love Style: Sensible
He's looking to fall in love with a lifetime companion—someone who'll share good times and bad—a love that's an extreme form of friendship. He doesn't expect love at first sight. Liking and respecting someone is a good start, then as comfort and closeness grow, love can emerge.
(I really can't argue with this one. How Funny! I wonder if any of my ex's or friends could tell me if I am really that predictable.)



I added this because some people (i.e. Meatheads, Barbies, and Doushbags) are really getting on my nerves. So, I thought I'd share a little bit of my Philosophies on Life, Dating, and Friendships:

- Because You Can:
Share a smile with someone you pass in public, say hello to a stranger, hold the door for someone that you don't know, ask someone (that you would never have talked to otherwise) how their day was, slow down to let someone merge in front of you on the highway, refuse to be a mean-spirited jackass. Why? Because You Can!

- Agree to Disagree:
Put simply, be flexible. People will not always see eye-to-eye, but it's how we handle our differences that gives us the ability to create concern, affection, and love for each other.

- Be Open to New Experiences:
A motorcycle ride and laughs with great people, wine tastings, theater, broadway plays, travel, new foods, and so much more. Life is really worth living if you find many ways to enjoy the experience.

- Have a Sense of Humor and Wit:
I love to laugh and be around people that will make me laugh with them. I'm not a stranger to making people laugh at me (and I'm perfectly OK with it). What gives me the right to laugh at someone else if I can't even laugh at myself?

- Be Educated and Have Common Sense:
So Important when it comes to having great conversation and dialogue. There's nothing more offensive to me than prejudice and stupidity.

- Have Aspirations:
Be Motivated to do more in your education or career, in order to advance up the chain of responsibility.

- Be Athletic (If you're not Coordinated, at least have fun!):
Quite Simply, Just do stuff with me (Lifetime Fitness / Gym, Volleyball, Softball, Tennis, bowling, ping-pong, horse shoes, etc.). You don't have to be a master of the sport, but at least try something new. What, afraid you might like it? And I recommend learning how to play golf. It's a great way to spend vacation and travel time, even when you're with a special someone. Almost anywhere you go, there's a golf course to spend an afternoon. If you take a cruise or stay in a resort, enjoy a round of golf as one of the excursions.

- Have Patience:
I am currently 13 months from completing my Master's Degree. Life is sometimes about knowing when to take 2 steps backwards so that you can take 10 leaps forward. Nothing worthwhile is ever handed to us and we need to be patient and earn our accomplishments.

- Social Confidence:
Nothing worse than taking someone to a party and being at each other's hip the entire night. People aren't difficult to talk to, if you try and make the effort.

- Seek something meaningful:
Understand that concessions in your expectations for a partner are a fact. However, do not sacrifice your own happiness for a title ("Married" or "Married With Children").

- A Beach, Camping, and The Outdoors:
Let's hit the beach or find a river to canoe. 2 Days, 3 Days, more. If you can brush your teeth and have a place to pee, who cares if it's a tent or a resort with whirlpool spa that fits 4. The important thing is being with friends and relaxing with great conversation.

- Self-Conscious People Annoy Me:
I don't care if you're not as proportioned up top as you would like to be, or if you are heavier than you think you should be, or if you think your body is too boney to be in a swimsuit. If you pass up the opportunity to go to a pool party or to the beach because you don't want to be seen in public in a swimsuit, more than likely we won't get along. Besides, what's the likelihood that you'll know ANYONE if you sit in the sun at Alum Creek Beach, Deer Creek Beach, or on the deck of a cruise boat in a 2-piece? You're alright in my book if you're confident enough with yourself to visit a nude beach or send text picture messages, to your special someone, of yourself in something sexy.

- Don't give so much credit to the bars:
Be able to have fun doing more than just getting hammered! Don't get me wrong, I enjoy going out and I enjoy going country line dancing (Yep, I went there), but alcohol does not define how I have a good time with friends. Drunken stupers only bring on morning regret and hard feelings because your inhibitions caused you to finally be honest with your friends.

- Get a Grip Sports Fans:
Yes, I am a Michigan Football Fan. I have ties to UM and enjoy my yearly trip to a football game. I believe in lively trashtalking and enjoying a great game. But seriously people! It's just a game. There's NO reason to burn a car or couch because you win a game or a championship.

It wouldn't be a date, just two people enjoying a discussion or one of the activities listed above...

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