MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!


I keep getting asked on this site... "What are you looking for in a man?"

Here's my attempt at an answer.

I want a man that I love to look at and that I love to touch.
Someone who can hold my hand, my interest and a great conversation.
Someone who adores me, unconditionally, simply because I am me.

I heard a song the other day... that made me think about that very question.
As to the song... I want "him" and not "you"... (you know who YOU are). :P

Here are the lyrics...

"According To You"... by Orianthi

According to you. I'm stupid, I'm useless, I can't do anything right.
According to you. I'm difficult, hard to please, forever changing my mind.

I'm a mess in a dress, can't show up on time, even if it would save my life.

According to you. According to you.

But according to him. I'm beautiful, incredible, he can't get me out of his head.
According to him. I'm funny, irresistible, everything he ever wanted.

Everything is opposite, I don't feel like stopping it, so baby tell me what I got to lose.

He's into me for everything I'm not, according to you.

According to you. I'm boring, I'm moody, you can't take me any place.
According to you. I suck at telling jokes cause I always give it away.

I'm the girl with the worst attention span; you're the boy who puts up with that.

According to you. According to you.

But according to him. I'm beautiful, incredible, he can't get me out of his head.
According to him. I'm funny, irresistible, everything he ever wanted.

Everything is opposite, I don't feel like stopping it, so baby tell me what I got to lose.

He's into me for everything I'm not, according to you.

I need to feel appreciated, like I'm not hated. oh-- no--.

Why can't you see me through his eyes?

It's too bad you're making me decide.

According to me. You're stupid, you're useless, you can't do anything right.

Etc...


Some of my favorites...
My sons, aged 19 & 22; my shih-tzus (Beauty & Chubby); steak (med.-rare); tequila (rocks w/lime); all that is Harry Potter (hurry 2010! - theme park! in Orlando); reading (anything!); writing (fiction); the wind & sun on my skin; Mt. Dew!; Levi jeans; cartoons; Chloe perfume; British humor; the Queen's English; a great cigar & an even better glass of wine; Dancin'!; the scents of grapefruit & cedar; Harris Pizza (Iowa thing); birch trees in the winter (Michigan thing); Live Music (any, hard & loud is better); dark comedy; cooking & entertaining guests; great smiles and laughter; hot tea and coffee (cream, no sugar); a warm bubble bath; overtly affectionate men; PC gaming (yes, I am a geek); & the blues of the ocean.