hi,i am looking for a man that's a real decent gentleman that has a good heart, intellegence,goals and ambitions in life. Honesty is the #1 key of getting to know someone. My dislikes in a guy that is smoking, drinking too much, judgemental, pressuring, demanding, being superficial, self-absorbant, very agressive, and misunderstanding.To me, it is more about someone's personality than their looks.if this really sounds like you,please respond to me ASAP.