| | In a brief conversation, a woman asked a man she was pursuing the question…..”what kind of woman are you looking at?”
He sat quietly for a moment before looking her in the eye and asking. “Do you really want to know?”
Reluctantly, she said, Yes?
He began to expound…as a man in this day and age, I am in the position to ask a woman what she can do for me that I can’t do for myself. I'm a strong and sensitive man, who is financially secure and command social respect. I am in the position to ask, “what can you bring to the table?”
The woman looked at him. Clearly, she thought he is referring to money.
He quietly corrected her thought and stated, “I am not referring to money. I need something more. “I need a woman who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life. “She sat back in her chair, folded her arms, and asked him to explain.”
He said, “I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don’t need a simple minded woman. “I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don’t need to be unequally yoked…..believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a woman who is striving for perfection financially because I don’t need a financial burden. I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a man, but strong enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to love unconditionally, I must respect him. I cannot love woman who isn’t taking care of her business. I have no problem in loving unconditionally…she just has to be worthy. God made woman and man to complement each other. I can’t help a woman if he can’t help himself. When he finished his spill, he looked at her. She sat there with a puzzled look on her face.”
She said, “You’re asking a lot.”
He replied, “I’m worth a lot.” |