i'm bajan born straight no mix.love my bajan food.if you ain't got no bajan food in the house(later).i'm shy at times,or all the time.i like a women who likes me the way i am and for who i am,not what she wants me to be.i'm very caring ect.(EXAMPLE)i go shopping,you getting too.(LOL).bottom line i'm just a nice person.just don't take it to the ?.life is what you make,because if you don't it might be too late.i love to jet ski,that's my relaxation.party wise?i'm a man who is self-confident and knows how to treat a woman. I show compassion towards others and knows my purpose in life.i know
how to enjoy life and live in the moment with a eye on the future. I am that special kind of man who is honest with myself and
understands that integrity and a man word stand for something. I have a very low keyed, laid back personality. I am slow to anger, as
it shows a lack of self control. I do not believe that a argue or fight is going to solve anything, That is no way to communicate. We
will disagree for sure, so lets talk about it, not yell about it. I am not here to control you, nor you me. I would rather let you
make a mistake, as long as it it not life threating, when solving problems, that try and tell you what to do. I do not want to
control you. But I will be there for you if you ask for my help. The pace of my life is slow and steady. I do not rush around wild
and crazy, my idea of being on time, is being early. I am in control of my life, my life does not control me. My family is a
priority, my friendship are important, the few I have, for not everyone I know, I consider a close friend. I am sensual, romantic and
passioante. I know the difference between the three and feel they do not all mean the same thing.The quality of time I can spend
doing what I want is more important to me than my career, although my career gives me a lot of special moments to cherish. My values
guide me each day, I know what is right for me and I stay on track. I do not worry about what others have or are doing. I know health
and fitness are important to my life style. They are good preventative medicine and help me enjoy whatever activities I try. I am
solid, grounded in my emotionally security of who I am and how I want to live my life. It doen't interest me what you do for a
living, as long as you can pay your bills! I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's
longing. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dreams, for the adventure of being alive. I want to
know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and
closed up from fear off other pain. I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it
or fix it. I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to
the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, be realistic, or to remember the limitations of being human. I
want to know if you will disappoint another to be true to yourself, if you can bear the accusation of betryal and not betray your own
soul. I want to know if you can be faithful and therefore be trustworthy. I want to know if you can see beauty even if the day is not
what you want it to be?`

well go to dinner of course.talk your life away.go down by the beach for a walk.let her ask the questions.then you just answer back.if she wets her lips while talking to you,something is going down?figure it out.