I Hate the Winter, Feels like I shrivel up and die,
But I love the spring, I burst with life and bloom during the Spring.
Im really not a dog person,
But I adore kittens,
So cute and cuddly and no stinky puppy smell.
Im starting to realize with each day that passes,
Just how important it is to have friends.
I keep telling myself that life is too short to worry,
But somehow I manage to always find something to worry about.
I despise the flab on my tummy and scorn it daily,
But I love myself,
For Im the best me there is.
I know I talk too much,
Then why do people worry when im quiet?
I am a passionate, romantic,
Ive discovered,
unfortunately, that that seems to put me in the minority.
I have found the perfect substitute word for "homemaker",
"Domestic Goddess",
I love to exercise, Especially Yoga,
Altho I must admit I get lazy about it at times.
I live for being spoiled,
Even if it is only with words,
For I lavish the same on those around me.
Bratty I can be, in a cute way,
I love sweet and tender kisses,
Especially when I really need them.
I love feeling important to the One I love.
Like little surprise phone calls during the day.
Just not too much.
Beautiful things can be overdone.
And Life? ... Well its the most beautiful gift that ever was.
Live it happily.

Appearance:
I'll get this part out of the way. I am a BBW. I also work out so I am fairly muscular. I also happen to be SEXY and SULTRY as hell. I have big blue/grey eyes...perfect skin & teeth. I smoked for 27 years and recently quit so i cannot be with a smoker. I wont risk my health anymore. Im turning 40 on January 29, 2008 and I take my health very seriously. I dress fairly casually. I have long fingers and nails and wear light make-up if any at all. My hair is dirty blonde with a few white and silver streaks in it. Its slightly wavy. I'd rather you stop to look at whats inside rather than whats on the outside tho.

Looking for:
Ive been out of a relationship for at least 2 years now. I really miss just having someone to talk to...to hold at night and to be held. chatting in a window seat at the local coffee house. getting amped up on caffeine together and sick over it later. Having someone to laugh at that with. The movies are alright but you sit in the dark next to someone for hours saying nothing...I prefer to wait till its out on DVD for the most part. That way I get to cuddle up next to the guy Im with during the film. Communication, Honesty, and understanding is the most important thing in a relationship and I miss that and having one to share that with. Its what Im truly looking for. I am not really looking for marriage but definitely want a very serious, long-term relationship with someone special. I need that in my life. FYI...Im not into someone that looks perfect...Just someone that is perfect for me!!!

Surprise Me!!!

I don't mean to be a drag but it really bothers me when a guy contacts me and in his profile he has pictures of himself with ANYONE else. You are on a dating site and trying to pick up women or men and you are posting pictures of your underage kids or even if they are over 18 and just your close buddy. I mean does that person even know that you are advertising them to the world? It's always just eaten me up to see this.Hmmm, I probably wouldnt respond to someone who has these picts. as part of their profile. Some people block out the other persons face, thats cool. There has got to be some solo picts. of yourself and if there isn't then get some made up. If you can't afford it, then you probably can't afford dinner either!

Male
Age between 35 and 60
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be looking for Hang Out
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not do drugs
Must not be married