Your looks, age not nearly as important as your lifestyle or persona.


Update:

Although I appreciate beautiful things---from homes to cars and art; I can and have done without them; the most beautiful precious art I display was painted by my son---Nothing compares with the beauty of nature…. a pounding surf, moist wind blowing through my hair, a budding gardenia, the inimitable joy that young children (my g-kids) share with me, the love and loyalty of animals (my former dogs and horses), or mutual love between man and woman “Love, the highest place a mortal can aspire to”.

Superior intellect, gentility, romance, passion, spontaneity are my aphrodisiacs.



To me all things are possible; I am a romantic. I know I care deeply for a man when I can visualize him disabled or penniless and see myself taking care of him and working in any field in order to support us. Admittedly not many pass this scrutiny. I have suffered tragedy and learned that I abhor perfection and perfect, untarnished people. If your life has been supported by your trust account and you have always “Had it all”; you are not real [to me]. As for those who claim not to want drama; I say, bring it on as that equates passion to me. No baggage? You have not lived.

With all that being said I am gentle, tender hearted and motherly loving. I give my all, yet contrary to, “I expect no less”. I will accept less as it is my experience that men who passionately love their work will at times need to put that first; I respect and admire these men for that. What we have then is a love affair where I am not competing for his time nor am I keeping score.

I have the utmost respect and pride in our military; they are the world’s most elite forces. The fact that it is now all voluntary makes these men even more admirable.

Now back to my regularly scheduled broadcasting.







Some "musts".

First, if your profile does not include a photo wherein you can actually be identified, not one taken from some 20 feet away, please do not waste your time or mine. No matter how beautiful your e-mails to me are, if when I finally get your photo you look like Captain Kangaroo, I'm not interested.....I believe in the old adage, "It's not how you feel, it's how you look", (tongue firmly in cheek).....Cuz when one looks good, you usually feel good. It's not about just looks; it's mostly about masculinity (tall, hard, strong is my ideal) and Captain Kangaroo just isn't my idea of manly. Please know imperfections are great; I've dated the one-armed man, a Nordic type from South Africa.

Prefer that you're successful; I don't care what you do....Well, maybe just a little; human trafficking, drug or any kind of smuggling are definitely out.... just be successful at it. You are well educated, groomed, mannered.

I’m Champagne and caviar, popcorn and Pepsi. Although I appreciate your soul (I’ll sense, see it almost immediately) I need your exterior to be attractive, stylish, modern as well. I so much prefer that you are a ‘good man’; not nice, good; a bit of a ‘badass’ as well; seductive and romantic.

I'm witty, double entendres my specialty; sometimes wicked; I flirt (but never when I'm with you).....I'm deep, sensitive, empathetic, sympathetic and intuitive. Cry, laugh; I'll cry, laugh with you; can't help it, it's in my genes.

I'm of Scottish/Spanish ancestry; I'm sultry, sincere, not coy, romantic. My eyes are blue-green. Somewhat metaphysical, I can interpret and analyze (maybe not as well as Freud or Jung) your dreams.


A very observant person once told me, "People to you are like rain and sun to flowers." I think this was very insightful; think he knew me.

Would be great to encounter someone whose soul has not died; one who can enjoy a great deal,from young children to opening night at the opera; deep and sensual so that we can enjoy one another on many different planes; one who wants or has also experienced the pleasure of desiring another emotionally, spiritually, intimately; to talk with about things we've discovered, experienced or want to discover; to plan and want new adventures.....traveling to ancient places, desolate beaches; exploring new beliefs....like Celtic Gods and Goddesses.

P.S. Just one other MUST: Please no beards, mustaches, whiskers, etc.

Lunch or a glass of wine, preferably at a place you've selected.