I'm seeking an attractive woman who fits within my desires and brings something special to the table.

I only want to contact the women that fit my criteria because I don't wish to waste time chatting with women who will not suit me long-term. My focus is quality over quantity.

There is a time to be serious and a time to have fun. Even when you are serious, you still need to have fun. Like me, if you can tell a joke in the middle of a storm you are the kind of 1st mate I want!

About you (like me): Four words -> calm, secure, patient, & funny.

About me: The challenge is finding the best (perfectly imperfect)1st mate on earth to work (what's that?) & play with me, who can play skipper occasionally taking the helm of the relation-ship, make all the small decisions, where I make the big ones if there are to be big ones, someone who is not just a passenger, but a partner in a shared adventure, willing & able to survive and learn from the storms, be occasionally lazy, and one who will stay on at the next port, even after the storms. The best first mate in a relation-ship.

Someone who is willing to connect deeply, and not be attached to a line pulling them off onto another distant ocean.

If you are calm like the deep water, but playful like the wind, warm like the sun but not to burn.

My ADDICTIONS in order of priority (sorry, you are on the bottom list..but you could work your way up my list if you too can play with me): 1) SAILING, I sail away forever!. 2) Dancing to music from sunset to sunrise in Costa Rica or wherever on earth we happen to be, 3) Watching the sunset together, 4)Not hurting you, 5) You?

Don't worry, culture says the captain has to charter the course, so I'll surprise you.

p.s. I usually don't get married on the first date, if I can help it! No sailing on 1st or 2nd date, but maybe after...