Stats: Hispanic, 5’7”, 235lbs, shaved head, goatee, hairy chest, tattoos, wear glasses.

A little about me:
I am back in school working on a BA in Interdisciplinary Studies with minors in Anthropology and Social Work at EWU. I will complete my BA in the next two years and continue onto Graduate school to pursue my Masters in Social Work.

After 14 years in the automotive industry as a technician and service manager the stress of the job became too much and I took a 5 year break to figure out what I wanted to be when I grew up. I have pretty much started from scratch with nothing. I live off of a monthly disability check and photographic work that presents itself from time to time. I have a degree in photography and it is the passion of my life, although not something that I want to do for a living because it takes the pleasure out of it for me.

As I stated above, I am on disability, so finances are tight, no so much disposable income available. But that doesn’t mean that there are not things to do that require cash. I love walking along the river, taking the bus out to Medical Lake and hanging out casting a line for a few hours, hiking through Riverside State Park, spending an afternoon at Riverfront Park, or a number of other leisurely pastimes that the area provides.

I have two grown daughters 26 & 18 that cause me much frustration, but isn’t that what kids are supposed to do? I have no ex drama, but have an ex that is full of drama! I have been divorced from her for over 10 years, but occasionally she still likes to try to stir things up, but I have learned the skillful art of ignoring the calls, lol. All in all my life is at peace, if attending college can be called that. I live with the daughter of my best friend and her husband and newborn son. They needed some help with the bills and asked me to help. It is a modest 2 bedroom apartment but they respect my privacy as I do theirs.

I am looking for a woman that has dealt with her baggage, whatever it may be. I believe we all have baggage and it stays with us for life, but the difference is whether we allow it to control and direct our lives. I do not want to be judged for the actions of someone in your past, nor will I judge you by those in my past. I choose to start with a clean slate and let the relationship dictate its own direction. You should be confident enough in yourself not to need me to complete you. That does not mean that I don’t want you to need me as a confidant, a shoulder to cry on when needed, or someone that you want to have around, just that it is not the all-encompassing aspect of the relationship.

I love to cuddle while watching TV, a movie, or listening to music. I enjoy just laying in bed for hours just holding each other whispering sweet nothings. I am a romantic at heart. I enjoy homemade candlelight dinners, picnics along the river, flowers, cards for no reason at all, and public displays of emotion. If you are squeamish about being kissed, hugged, or holding hands in public, then I am definitely not the guy for you! As far as sex is concerned I love to experiment, here to, if you are conservative and guarded, I am not for you. By experiment I mean monogamously, not with others. Trust and fidelity are most important to me, if trust is broken, then it is over. I’m sorry, but I don’t believe that any relationship has a future when fidelity is broken.

Well I think that I have given somewhat of a clear picture of who I am. If you have any questions please feel free to ask them.

Ciao, until then!

Hang out at the park, go out to coffee, come over to my place and see some of my images, or whatever you feel comfortable with, and get to know each other better.