What I am looking for is to make a good true friend FIRST and go from there. Yes it is nice to think beyond that but it is of paramount importance to start at the first plateau wouldn't you agree? I am a realist and I am not impressed by material things or status, only by honesty and sincerity. I can see past the little imperfections we as humans all have and lord knows I have my share. You have never seen me on Jerry Springer or Americas Most Wanted and I did not have a DNA test for Anna Nichole's baby either! Being the brutally honest fellow I am, I am considered to be of the Chunky persuasian but there are 3 chunky guys in Florida and we work 8 hour shifts! I have been widowed for a while now and would enjoy finding that true friendship and companionship without all the games. I do not bite, I have had all my shots, I am housebroken, I really doubt June Cleaver wore high heels to clean her house, and I am convinced OJ did it! It doesn't cost a penny to say hello and remember, strangers can be friends you have not met yet! Feel free to message me in Yahoo messsnger ID florida_bill50

A first date should be something very casual where both parties can feel more at ease like an afternoon movie or lunch somewhere by the water. Jeans or shorts totally acceptable for you and making slurping noises, spilling sauce on you, eating dessert before the main meal also acceptable.