let me start by saying I'M FREE not worthless just the kind of free that would speak of ones place in life. I am free from casting judgment on anyone for stupid things like looks , faith , weight, eye color , skin color or any other physical attributes . It is this realization that lead me to search for the beauty in people . we all have it some where . where it yours?

i think everyone should do something kind for someone everyday and don't pat your self on the back for doing it takes away the sincerity of the act of kindness. you should not do it in a way people can see you do it just to make u look good in there eyes.

my biggest turnoff is a lie. We are all adults and have nothing to lie about to each other .
Its apparent that we are all in need of contact with loving , caring , honest, real 'down to earth people . so why not just be up front from the git go. I could care less about seeing a pic. I just want someone that cares more about knowing about the person rather then the things they have.

I am not looking to be a sugar daddy or support anyone . just be real . well i am getting of the soapbox now.

for everyone who sent me e-mails thank you very much.

I am not really good at thinking of what to say in e-mails. in fact it took my an half an hour to come up with what i wanted to say in my profile .if you see me online please IM me and i will answer anything you ask.