You should be a family oriented slim-medium build attractive woman living in the NY, NJ area... age 30-45 please, preferably without children. (Don't get me wrong.. I absolutely love kids, but would like a few of my own some day). My interests are varied and I'm also very spontaneous - so just about anything goes. I love dining out- anything from thai food to sushi to Italian. I enjoy a good movie (at the theater with fresh buttery popcorn) I also enjoy travelling and long drives to nowhere, as long as I'm with that special person. People often tell me that they can't believe I'm still single because I am such a down to earth guy and fun to be around. The reason I am single is not because I am picky, but because I value my worth and feel I should not settle for anything less than someone who is somewhat like me.

You should get to know me because I have a lot to offer that special person. I come from a great family and upbringing, I have respect for my peers and I bring all those traits into a relationship. I am honest and trusting and I am not into game playing and endless e-mails and telephone conversations that lead to nothing. I have a great sense of humor and I promise to make you laugh each and every day.

Most important things in life to me are Family and Friends. They say that you can tell a lot about a person by the friends they choose to have. And, the same goes about their families. Coming from a close family tells me that you will have the same qualities in raising your own family. Health, Happiness and of course Music is a important part of my everyday life.

Our first date we will most likely meet at a cozy restaurant close to you. We'll share a bottle of wine and enjoy a beautiful dinner as we get to know each other. Conversation will be forever flowing as our food gets cold. We'll definitely laugh a lot and we will both not want the date to end. If dinner is not your preference, a nice cafe works for me too.

They say that good things come to those who wait. The waiting will soon be over. I know she's out there somewhere. My dad (RIP) I know will bring us together. My ideal match is someone that shares my passion for life. Someone who is not afraid to be herself. Someone young at heart with a sense of humor, who likes to have fun and can get along with just about anyone. I want a woman who can be spontaneous too. I want someone who still believes in old-fashioned values.