Have been on here a while and chatted to a real variety of guys (some more memorable than others!) so I know that there are some really decent, funny, great guys out there...just that they generally live about 200 miles away from me....as well as some...erm...other sorts of men. I have a good life, I don't need a man to complete it, but would like to find one who enriches it.
Anyway it has given me a chance to clarify what I would ideally like to find in someone... which is.....

I want someone to hang out with and do things with…
that I can giggle over stupid stuff with…
that has a zest for life…
with an inquisitive mind that can talk about anything and everything…
that I can enjoy going out with but that I'm equally comfortable with having dinner and a glass of wine at home or just chilling in front of the tv…
someone that is cool about, and with my kids…
ditto my dog…
someone that is honest, loyal and shows integrity…
that wants to make a difference...
that is strong enough to show support but also able to reveal their vulnerabilities…
that I want to kiss whenever I see them


love isn't finding a perfect person, it's seeing an imperfect person perfectly



Ok that seems pretty straight forward and not too much to ask for....lol


God where do I start?
I'm a single mum with 3 fab kids, some good friends and a busy life. I'm generally pretty happy and love people, socialising, laughing, films, theatre, books, travelling, walking my scruffy mutt of a dog on the beach, staying up late talking, music, driving with my favourite music playing loudly, being able to help a friend, sunshine, adventures. I'm definitely more interested in people than possesions and am pretty non specific about ideal hair colour, age, body type etc but i like people who are kind, make me laugh, like to enjoy life, care about others, have wit and a spark and a twinkle in their eye!
I believe that there are two types of people in life - ones who enrich your life and others who sap your energy and its definitely the former I'm interested in. I don't care what job someone does but honesty is very important to me. I'm not looking for Action Man or a player but would like someone to enjoy the ups and downs of life with and ideally with a smile!

Be nice to hear from anyone wanting to chat and be friends!

... Hmmm first date wouldn't need to be too fixed but good conversation would be a must.