I am a 54 year old widow who was very happily married 6 years ago, then life happened and here i am. I am an honest, fun-loving,kind,warm,loyal,funny,compassionate,affectionate woman who is looking for that spark. You know the one, if you DO you may be the one.I love to go out on my boat, take the granchildren tubing...yes i do it too. I also like to just get in the car and take a ride with a friend and look at the beauty of nature. i am easy to talk to and just plain down to earth. IM from New Jersey im just getting to know Western Ny and its quite different, especially all the snow. Usually by spring at home we are getting ready to go down the shore and go out on the ocean to play. well thats all i can think of but if you can think of more contact me and ill answer any question you ask, well anyone within reason.Youll never know if you dont try, seems to be my motto lately.

I like to go somewhere quiet, ( not to a movie on the first date ) where you can talk and get to know each other or a walk on the beach and sit on the rocks and get to know each others likes and dislikes , or a quiet dinner somewhere, or a cup of coffee, where its nice and quiet,like a deck or a hot tub... Kidding!