I am 37 years old musician and writer. I like cats. .I am a vegetarian.I like to cook. .I am looking for someone interesting and unique. I want to meet someone who does not play games or who is just looking for attention. Also, I have alot of visable tattoos. If that bothers you,please move on. Basically, I just want to find someone I can connect with. Let me know if you are interested.
P.S I'm not as mean as I look in my pics ;)

It depends on the situation. Meeting for dinner or drinks is a good start. Movies are a bad idea for a first date because you can't talk and get to know the person you are with. I guess you look for common interests and go from there.