If you're looking for someone that is possessive and jealous, then it's not me that you seek. I'm looking for that special someone to share and build a long term relationship and I'm in no rush to find it. A bit of self humor is a big plus. I like to challenge ideas at times, however not all discussions should have to be a debate. I've been told I tend to march to my own drummer, and I would also have to agree. One of the first things people tell me is that I'm pretty laid back, but when I'm passionate about something then I don't hide how I feel about it.

Please have your own goals and ambitions, but be able to comfortably fit me in as I will do the same. Being happy with yourself is a very good thing. Treating my woman with love and respect, which means not tearing you down to get my point across, is what I do automatically.

I don't have a favorite thing I like to do, but I'm currently learning salsa, cumbia and tango. I recently attended my first milonga and had a great time.

Lastly, I read a lot of profiles that are looking for some storybook Prince Charming, and my initial reaction is "well good luck with that" LOL. I am not perfection or will ever be, I'm a work in progress. One thing I will definitely say is whatever the setting whether it's at a work function or with family or friends, I will never purposely embarrass you by my behavior (unless singing is involved) and will fit in as someone who makes you feel comfortable. I was once forced to watch The Bachelorette and if you are anything like her, we probably aren't going to meant for each other either.

Reading these profiles I didn't realize so many people drank coffee. I guess next time I go to Starbucks, I can safely assume most people are there on a first date.