Here's the Reader's Digest version about me ~ I'm a 45 yr old, divorced father of three older kids in Carlsbad, I have the best job/career that I could have ever imagined doing. I like fast cars, boats, bikes & baseballs. I love to cook. I'm into travel, be it a Sunday ride, a weekend get away, a week long cruise or a month on a tropical island (O.K., I haven't actually pulled that last one off yet, but I'm workin' on it). I don't smoke or do drugs, but I do enjoy my Jack n Coke while jamming to live music. Speaking of which, you'll enjoy dancing with me. Basically, I am a fantastic individual that is worth your time getting to know.
What more can I say? Read on...

I love anything that has to do with the great outdoors. Including the river, the desert, deep Baja and baseball games, as well as the beach right down the street. I am probably the best cook I know, and I enjoy entertaining at home with small parties. I also love a good meal, whether its a five star restaurant or a taco stand...if its good, its good. Doesn't matter who serves it.

I don't do the movies much, rather On Demand it in the comfort of my own home. I do like the theatre and live music. Music moves my soul (corny I know, but oh so true). I can dance all night long with the right partner. Doesn't really matter what kind of music either. Live blues is always deep, as is a jazz quartet, but I can two-step to country western as well as salsa...

I recently was on a boys trip, and my buddies were asking me if I was ever going to get married again. My response to them was, that I‘d luv to, but I was gonna be really picky. They all laughed so hard. Told me I was an idiot (that's how guys talk) and said you're suppose to be picky when you pick your life partner. Having said that, I'm not unrealistic, I know relationships take work, but I chose wrong once, and I will be patient before I do it again. I do believe the right lady is out there, and when we meet we'll know it.

What is she like? She will be beautiful, slightly independent with her own life and down to earth. Someone who wants to share herself and her life at the end of a long day while we stroll down the beach (or just around the neighborhood) discussing what we'll do for dinner and the perfect wine to accompany the meal in our perfect world!


Life is about the journey, not the destination. If you cannot enjoy the ride, then something is wrong. Do something about it. Make a change! In the end, when our life flashes before our eyes, will you want to watch it again? I know I will.

Well, if I win the Lotto, I'd pick you up in and take you to the aiport where a private jet would wisk us away for a few days. Where are we going? That all depends in what we're in the mood for. I guess on Monday morning you'll know where we've been.