Welcome to the world of my profile. You may like what you see or you may not. But you wont know until you give it a read. Why I keep coming back to the online dating, I still cant answer that one. Maybe there is someone out there, kinda like life on Mars.
I am a hard working Law Enforcement Professional. College Grad with 2 degrees. I work hard but now its time to take a break and enjoy life. I have some crazy hours, that most people dont understand and even fewer can tolerate.
I work out and run to keep in shape. I also mountain bike. I consider myself good looking, but not a male model. I am confident not arrogant. I dont dwell on my own looks. I am who I am, love it or leave it. I have a crazy fun sense of humor and will keep people laughing. I also have my quiet and intimate side. Stress? Who's Stressed? haha. I need to work on that too. Life is too short for stress, but the job creates it.
I watch some TV, mostly Law and Order CI and a little CSI Miami. Movies, I am into the action, suspense,and some dramas, things that challenge the mind.
My ideal woman, well there is no set type. I like a woman who can keep my interest as well as make me laugh. I sometimes perfer women with darker hair, great smile, and seducing eyes. Personality goes with attraction, you need some of both. I tend to prefer an active to athletic women, though some curves are also attractive. I take each person I meet as an individual, so really its all about how we get along. I am not steadfast on a set stereotype of a woman.
In general I am looking for someone who can have fun. Someone who can go out on the town, or kick back and relax Not sure if I am looking long term or shorter term. What happens will happen. Skip the drama, life is short, why get caught up in the petty games. I am also not into pressuring myself for a wedding date or anything like that at the moment.
I am definitely tired of all the games that go with dating. Be upfront and honest. If you want something ask, if you need to know something that say so. I am looking for someone who will peak my interest. I am looking for someone to "arouse my intellect as well as my loins" to quote Eddie Murphy.
Well thanks for reading, If you like what you saw, then leave me note and I will get back to you. Cheers
Feel free to IM me at searchingshadows28 on Yahoo IM.. or searchingshadow9 on AOL IM.
Ideal first date. Nothing crazy or wild. Hang out, chill, kick back with a coffee or a few drinks. Grab dinner maybe hit a small classy pub or eatery. Enjoy some laughs, and quality conversation. Keep it simple and easy going. See if there is a connection.
