Hi!
Ive been on POF for a lil while now...
if you missed my previous detailed profile...
sorry!
In a nutshell...
Im here for the real deal...
no games
no hook ups on the first date
Heres how it is:
If I was your employer(or you mine)...
I would not give you full benefits for the first three months, would I?
I expect you to be able to keep pace with me... physically and intellectually
so think about that before you send me a message...
[btw I train HARD 6 days a week, and had pics up showing just how committed I am to fitness, training, and my martial arts. POF moderators wont allow me to post shirtless pics. Some women find it tacky... good! The pics were a great way to reverse screen since many wouldnt read PAST the pic. I ALSO had those pics up because Im RIPPED!! And NO Im not looking for Ms. Olympia, a super model, barbie or any specific 'type' (if youre listed as average or athletic and accurately so, or you have a 'few extra pounds' in the right places...awesome!)... but, well since my PICS cant suggest it... no overweight women please. There. I said it. BBW's are beautiful just like anyone else, but NOT FOR ME. You dont have to be buff... but please! Some of you women... what the hell. Really... all 'niceties' aside... dont hit me up if youre overweight. Hey, some women dont date outside their own race... fine for them! Im not gonna call them a racist or hate them... they just like what they like. And I like a woman I can lift. I cannot post a pic of the size of my brain, but lets just say it dwarfs the physique...my 'little grey cells' (as my fave Belgian detective would say) are as 'in shape'as my veneer. Lets see who can see past the abs and see the man beyond...cuz thats what matters...not my super hard six pack. Which I cant show. Too bad. If I take this good care of ME... imagine how Im gonna take care of YOU, and us. Call it reverse screening (intellectually) because if you cant see past the pics...youre not worth MY time. And... to those who criticize shirtless pics...youre not the one getting emails from women who would have coronary failure if they attempted to keep up with me...whether that be a full day of activities, playing sports TOGETHER (even if its slow pitch or bowling), indoor/outdoor coital aerobics, or keeping up to me in general...
what this site has reminded me, is that my ideal partner -what attracts me most - is a woman who plays a sport of some kind, has a competitive edge and has been competitive before but is not obsessed with winning, and is University educated. Can you cover second AND discuss Jung? If this is you... read on!!!]Im looking for someone who can challenge me intellectually as well as weather me physically... if you can ski with me, play scrabble with me, Rollerblade, and test me in Jeopardy, lets chat!
I was kinda that kid who was a jock and a nerd,and always the top of my class and team captain. But dont let that get to ya... Im just a guy. Who is looking specifically to fall in love and settle down with his PARTNER...his equal. His best friend.
Thanks for stopping by, but I honestly dont have time to waste responding to women who are...
just NOT my type...
My PREVIOUS profile was...detailed.
Maintenant... Im keeping it short. Or at least trying to!!! A pic can truly be worth a 1000 words. And maybe Im a little blunt. For that, I apologize! If YOU would like to know more about me... ask! Theres a lot of things Im into, interested in, and willing to continue to explore...
Im looking for an optimist who isnt 'afraid' to go after anything, whose confident in herself to be herself, and understanding enough to allow me to be myself as well...
life is short, and, for me, no matter how grimy it gets, I love it! I can be a very serious cat (I take care of biz, I keep my body hard and my mind sharp), so I truly appreciate and promote having as much fun as I can... but I also want stability...and eventually HOME built equally and passionately by two and founded on solid morals,values,and love.
So if youd like to find out what Im really like drop me a line. Sorry but that is NOT gonna be easy as Im picky- and I know theres some reading this that already know this. Realize THIS: if we fall into a perpetual chat mode with no foreseeable meeting in the near future(I like to tread carefully but NOT procrastinate) dont be offended if I continue to fish. Im not into multiple dating, I date exclusively one person, but if we are just talking, havent met, and it doesnt look like we ARE gonna meet any time soon... why waste time? Mine or yours? So If we get to chatting... please have an interest in maybe meeting one day that isnt too far off, because life is short and theres LOTS of fish in the sea, and chemistry cannot be defined or gauged in cyber space)...
If I DONT respond...
no offense! I wish you the best of luck!
Im sick of this site but it DOES have its diamonds...Im hoping to find MINE...
good luck to you in finding YOURS!
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