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I think this day of age and area, it is hard to find a "real cowboy." A lot of people think just because you wear boots, jeans and have a few hats that makes you a cowboy. I know it's also a state of mind, and the way that one acts. Real cowboys don't need to tell, you will always tell. I have to be with myself the rest of my life, so I can not be bitter or miserable, and I must do things and act the way that is true to myself, honest and right as I expect others to do to me. So I place my faith in life first, which will give me balance to carry on with the remainder of my life in search of my soulmate and my best friend. Are you ready to ride with me?
Evolved to this moment... now to be shared ... My position is in the center...I refuse to be frighted, con'd, pushed against the wall or lied to...I am persistant and unshaken when faced with adverse situations...I choose to identify with the heart of the matter...I find comfort and am inspired by the love of others and have a tendency of making tremendous sacrifices for all those who confide in me...I'm always standing on firm, solid ground...The drama and exaggerations of people amuse me...It is somewhat difficult to ruffle my feathers...I consider myself to be kind, patient, friendly and faithful...I can be agressive if pushed yet avoid it if at all possible...I am not blinded by pride or conceit...I am a loving father and am likely to place physical well-being and comfort on a high level when it comes to my children and partner..I say what I mean and I mean what I say...I am creative, honest and loyal... What are you looking for in a partner? I'd like to meet a woman who is honest, with integrety and patience. A reliable, faithful woman and stable. A Giver. Someone who is Loving, Helpful, Generous and Compassionate. A woman who can see the best in others and help bring it out because her heart is open. A woman who'd rather be inspired than controlled. She'd have to be the kind of woman who doesn't expect to talk all the the time and can simply enjoy being together...She'd not be as clingy as he is independent and she'd have to appreciate what she has with an honest desire to work together...She'd have to be reserved and mysterious in her manner. What I mean by that is; she'd have to expect it all...a lasting connection on every level. mentally, emotionally, sexually and spiritually. she'd ultimately know that destiny should deliver a love that most can only dream of...for fun:
Horses are a life long passion, I own one and ride all the trails here. I enjoy my boating on Lake H. I also jetski there with an extra one for you! Max's, Krogh's and the local dining at the Mohawk House. Swartswood Lake fishing for the big ones.
My job:I turn my work into an experience of inner and outer growth. I never stop challenging myself to go beyond my comfort zones and celebrate the success and advancement of others. I am seeking a partner in life and the "perks" shall be forever rewarded. My ethnicity:1/2 German-1/2 Hungarian by ancestry My religion:
I am far more spiritual then I am of a Christian religion. To me, spirituality is a position of my heart with God, my personal relationship with Him--and the world around me. It is a part of who I am from in the inside-out, not the outside-in. My education: If you could only see inside me you would feel the passion, you could touch my soul You would discover the same love of learning. Integrity is telling myself the truth. And honesty is telling the truth to other people. Life is simpler when you do.
I'd just like to add... In my past I've been used to putting up with the bad more than the good.. It's fine if the woman in my life gets irritated and complains at times however, if he adds a level of blame and anger or crushes my person, than I'll have nothing to do with her. I want positive exchanges. I don't want to eternally communicate love through what she can do for me, rather what I can do for her. I want her to bring a mixture of good and less added blame into the relationship. I don't want old patterns. I want happiness. She must not be critical or cold towards me. I know how rebel a woman can be. I have a tendancy to take careless remarks and behaviors personally and have learned over the years to a more tough-skinned man. I have no desire to attempt to change her. I'm so upfront about my needs that I'm less forgiving. I have a tendency to overlook shortcomings and bad behavior Yet, I am very cautious of those who criticize me or overlook my feelings. I run my safety checks. I refuse to be a "welcome mat". I want a woman who knows what she wants and appreciates what she has. I don't play games and I don't carry baggage. Make no attempts to use or abuse me. I am constantly moving forward. I never look back. "Whom I'm looking for"...kind, intelligent, actractive, caring, with a good character, lives a healthy lifestyle, loves the outdoors and enjoys being active. Looking forward to enjoy life to it's fullest...with that "someone special"...who has the energy, curiosity and interest to do the same.
My lover waits for me I assure myself; the One, the woman and essence who completes her destiny and moment, elevating her to a goddess and mystical princess; queen of eternity and mother of the universe; behind the silent but eternal fog of darkness, resting among stars and sounds in her secluded world and refuge; that chamber behind reason and obligation, where neither owls nor the light of day venture, and where time is stopped and all manners and convention are placed aside; where myths and legends spring to life in a sparkling display of phantoms and shadows who assume the roles of seductress and seducer, satisfying and receiving the hidden passion and desires of a lovers heart.
About me...I enjoy the journey and all that life has to offer.I love being a Dad. I find contentment & appreciation for the many blessings of the day and have a creative flare that inspires the soul. I can be as adventureous as rock climbing to sitting quiet in my partners arms watching a sunset.I am committed and offer opportunities to create cherished memories.I enjoy the elements and I am moved sensually.Being creative, I express this gift in many ways, whether it be in the home, garden, artwork, cooking and especially spending down time with my partner.I appreciate& listen to all types of Music.I gain spiritual insight through reading, attending workshops, and practice the meditation of Qi Gong to quiet my mind and cultivate internal energy. I look forward to when I connect with the woman that inspired my thought, "some things are worth waiting for." I'm looking for... Ultimately, I am looking for a companion/ "partner", a woman, with whom I can share the ~Dance of Life~. One, who is mutual and true with his intentions, has integrity, graitude, is humbl

I think the type of memorable first date you have depends on how well you know the person. If it's someone I know in real life, see quite often, know something about, and know I'm already attracted to, then a memorable first date could be several hours long...dinner and dancing or something similar (see below) would be my choice so that we could talk and get to know one another even better.

If the person is someone you've met online, then I prefer for the first date to be just a meeting for a drink or something similar....just in case it doesn't go well and one of us wants out! :) (I'm sure that never happens to any of us, though!) If all goes well you can always extend the date to include dinner, movie, dancing, or whatever. I prefer something where we can talk the first time and really get to know one another.

My perfect first date:
We've built up such chemistry on the phone that when I open the door and see you, I grab you by the back of the neck and kiss you before I even leave the house. (Note: Don't you DARE try this -- some fantasies are best left as fantasies.)
My ideal relationship:
Complete and utter comfort. I can be myself around you without feeling judged. You can sit in your room working while I do a crossword and I'm entirely content. I only have eyes for you, you only have eyes for me and we communicate this verbally, physically and often.
My past relationships:
Flossing is important. Laughing is essential. Perfection is impossible. Better to be single than to be in a bad relationship. If it's worth it, I'll work for it; if it's not, I won't. Don't say anything you'll regret because you can't take it back. Finally, you must expose yourself emotionally -- it's the only way to reap love's greatest rewards.