I am a funny, creative, honest, loyal, curious, and kind woman. I live by the Golden Rule and treat others the way I want to be treated--and that is VERY well. I'm detail-oriented, independent, and a little set in my ways, but do know the value of compromise in a relationship. I don't buy what I can't afford. I am genuinely thankful for the little things in life. I have more books than shoes, but I'll admit that I have A LOT of shoes, too. I love to travel, but haven't done much of it in the past few years. My elderly dog comes first. It's only fair, I've known her longer and I'm loyal to my best friends, even when they walk on 4 legs.

I'm looking for a smart, honest, loyal, open-minded, thoughtful, responsible, and funny guy who wants to be in a monogamous relationship. Being considerate of others time and feelings is essential. Being handy or artistic is a bonus. I also think it is really cute if you are slightly shy in social settings. It's cool to start out as friends, but my goal is to find someone special. I'd take Clark Kent over Superman any day. I guess I like predictable guys as spontaneity can lead to drama. I think my "dream" guy is going to be an archeaologist because then he will become more interested in me as I age. Just kidding. I don't care what you do for a living as long as it is legal and you are good at it! I want someone who takes pride in his work, relationships, and health.

I live in Naperville and work in the NW 'burbs and am looking for someone who is available on some evenings and weekends. I do not have children, but I do like them. If yours are great, I am sure I would welcome the whole package.

Ideally, we would talk on the phone a few times after e-mailing on here, then decide if we want to meet up. I have been out of the online dating scene for the past 2 years. I was a fish here back then and it was a positive experience, so I am back now. I am *not* using the chat/IM, so send a message if you want to know more.

"It is no use to wait for your ship to come in, unless you have sent one out." ~ Belgian Proverb

Something casual where we can share a few laughs and get to know eachother.