"DISCLAIMER": i am not "looking" for anything. i try not to have any expectations on somebody i do not know. i am here to meet new people. i have several friends right now, but i am always in the mood 4 co-creating new relationships. well, a lot of the time anyways.

so here i am. i am currently attending grad school as a social work major at the u of ark. here in fayetteville. i grew up in okla, but i have been living off & on here in fayetteville for the past 12 yrs. i have been employed as a phlebotomist for over four years at one of the major hospitals around here. i have two daughters that are rapidly catching my age. i absolutely love dipping myself into books that promote health. i am not a health nut yet. but soon i will be. until then, i am trying not to overload on too many brownie-fudge sundaes.

i suppose at this point i could go into a long discourse giving you all the ins & outs about me with such details as my favorite music, pets, movies, etc. however, i will reserve that info for the 1st date. besides, there's gotta be some sort of mystery or curiousity left right?!?!?!?!?

to me, it really doesn't matter what happens on the first date. however, there are a few givens: communication, humor, comfortability, and informality. i would hope these are a few of the major things that would occur on a first date. of course, if i were to "connect" with someone; well, i suppose another date might warrant a more formal setting.