Hello. My name is Tom and I’m a 39 yr old man, and I’m looking for outgoing and interesting people for fun and friendship. If you’re looking for an honest, hard working, kind-hearted guy then look no further. Send me an email and lets see what might develop. My friends say I have a big heart and a great sense of humor; I bet I can make you smile and laugh even on your worst days. I like just about anything when it comes to food, and I think I‘m a good cook too. You can say I know my way around the kitchen….. I mean how hard it is to set the oven to 450, and ask you what you "Want do you want on your Tombstone?"…… ;) kidding. I enjoying dinning out just as much, as a quiet dinner at home, as all jokes aside...I can cook very good. So if you are looking for a man who has a big heart and who is open to many things, then don't be afraid to say “Hi” to me. I don't bite and I promise I will get back to you.

I would like to find someone that has a variety of interests. I want to venture out and try new things, and I’m looking for someone who is willing to have some fun with me. I’m from a small town, and when the weather is nice I enjoy going to the small town festivals, and listening to the live bands. I listen to a variety of music; everything from country, pop, dance, 80’s rap and hair bands. The best show I have seen was Bon Jovi live. I’m not a fan of the hard core rap or super heavy metal - signs that I’m getting old I guess. I like a nice balance of going out or staying in and just watching a movie. I think we could have fun whatever we are doing. Even grocery shopping can be fun when you're with the right person. Expect spontaneity when you’re with me… I have been known to find a florist, even when I didn't screw up, and send flowers -Just because. Its fun to make someone smile, even if it is just a little note left behind for her to find later saying "Hi Beautiful....."

I think a good first date would start with dinner, and some good conversation and getting to know one another. Then off to something fun like some live music, go carts, or a comedy show. Followed by another great conversation by a campfire… I can make an amazing s’more.

I have learned that relationships are a 2 way street. I want to find someone I can talk to about anything as I think open communication is a fundamental in a relationship that is gonna last. You can have some pushing and pulling in it but if one is pushing and doesn't do any pulling then distance just grows between you and walls are put up which from my experience is not a good thing...lol.... If that street is a one way street with only one person trying to make it work then you are like that dog always chasing a car and never catching it...lol....I understand it takes two and there is give and take in any relationship. I want to find someone that looks forward to talking on the phone or seeing each other. I also believe in giving each other space and if you like someone it takes what a minute to text hi or thinking of you. If you like someone it shouldn't be to difficult to find a minute in your day for them....I have a romantic side and have even been known to bring someone special lunch at work as a way of saying I am thinking of you and have even been to florist and given someone flowers for no other reason than I like to spoil someone a bit or give them a book or possibly just a fun gift that I saw and thought of them.....

I think it can be anything from dinner or having a couple drinks somewhere quiet enough that you can talk and have a conversation. Maye go play mini golf or go carts I mean what can be a better first date than getting bumped out of the way to win a silly go cart race....If its nice out which it will be here again some month why not go for a walk and an ice cream cone....Can always go bowling or shoot some pool. Here is a novel concept actually discuss it and both agree on something fun and casual.