updating the updated, updating update Oct. 30 2009
WOW..has it really been a year since I updated this...I'm still single...I think I need to get out more...hehehe...anyway..thats it...still single
updating the updated update:10-28-2008...Hmmm...I'm still single and not sure why...
This is a long profile...sorry...but it tells a lot of who I am so read it please.
Updated Update: 05-07-08
I have decided that trying to find my one true love and only that is kind of silly.
When it happens it will happen.
I am now just wanting to find some friends to hang out with and go do things on occasion.
The dating scene doesnt work too well for me. Plus I am putting too much pressure on myself trying to find the "perfect one".
So if you want a really fun, funny guy too chill with and go do some fun things with let me know. I'm buying.
UPDATE: 04-04-2008
OK ladies.
This is just a small update to help me and you out.
I am somewhat shy, at least when trying to meet someone new.
So if I am attractive or interest you, please send me an e-mail.
At least a "hello".
To let me know you are interested.
I am looking for someone to fall in love with.
I dont want a booty call....and not looking to get intimate on a first date....thanks anyway ladies.
I want someone that knows life is short....being happy is all we really have in life.
And hopefully whoever meets me wants to start that happy journey together...NOW!!!
I am not rich, not all cut and buff, a little gun shy from past relationships.
But as far as a loving, romantic, caring man....well I may not be the best in the world but I feel I rank pretty high in the "worth a shot" category.
I know most of you ladies have been approached by the roach type males on here looking to "hook up" when thier wives arent home.
I am single.......very very single.
I also want to move back to Louisville Ky. sometime soon (my kids live there).
If you are on my favorite list I either know you as a friend or want to know you.
Please read my profile though now.....it is only a small piece of who I am.


("PROFILE FROM BEFORE FOLLOWS")
Describing who I feel I am is complicated.
I am half regular guy, and half very special.
I am a man who is very sensitive and emotionally deep.
I am pretty sure what I want to find in a lady, and wont string you along if it's not right.
I "feel" I am a big romantic.
I love to pamper and spoil a lady.
I believe in opening you're door and pulling out your chair.
I also believe in little gifts and surprise romantic dinners.
I think two people who are either in love or just really good friends should treat each other special.
God knows the rest of the world isn't going to.
I am a big cuddler. I love to just sit and snuggle while doing anything.
Kissing and holding hands.
As I said I am sensitive.
This doesnt mean I am not 100% male.
I am in touch with my inner emotions and understand who I am.
I just believe that to live life happy and content is the only reason we are all here.
I love to love.
I love to give all of my emotions, and affection to a love.
I love my friends with passion and caring also.
I am "NOT" a male macho jerk. (yes I know the difference).
I do not believe in yelling and screaming to get my way.
I am a protector and will back my partner on anything they do.
I am loyal to my partner.(I don't fool around).
And I ask that if you want to get some on the side to please keep looking.
Been there, had that happen.
Didn't like how it made me feel.
As for my home life I cook, and am a neat freak. "I" do my own laundry (just weird that way).
Ihave 3 children, but they live with thier mom in Ky.
I just moved back to N>C> and do not yet have a friend database. (see definition of lonely :-)).
I have had 2 relationships in the past 19 years, so I am not afraid of commitment.
But as of right now just want a really cool friend.
I enjoy anything outdoors.
I am getting back into golf (still suck).
Love cars, and anything with a motor.
Like cherry cokes, chocolate, and "my" lasagna.
I really like making big 'ol cakes. (weird for a guy...but hey "BIG 'OL CAKES" yummmmmmmm)
I am really into music. Mainly alternative and metal. but also like rock, oldies, bluegrass, some country, and even classical.
I listen to it all.
I am not a big club person, but enjoy it if I'm with someone I care for and enjoy.
I am usually smiling and being goofy. I feel 12 at times.
Still love cartoons, and especially sponge bob and fairly odd parents.
As for my appearance people tell me I'm attractive. I am not sure anymore. I know I used to be real cute.
I have a few extra pounds (Jenny Craig people lost 'em and I keep finding 'em).

OK. as for who I would like to meet.
Well a lady who is in need of a really good friend. I am a great friend to people.
I'm very good at making your day bright, and making you laugh (I hope).
I love to shop (sometimes a bad thing). hehe.
I am good at decorating.
I AM "NOT" GAY!!!!!!!!!
Just in touch with my creative side, and not afraid to be me.
I would like someone who likes to talk, and converse.
About life, love, the universe, taxes.....ok not taxes.
But just likes to talk and work out lifes little weird things.
Someone who is beautiful inside. Meaning happy with yourself, and not afraid to open up and give in to your feelings.
Dont be afraid Im not looking for a wife. just a good friend for now.
If something blosoms GREAT!!
But if we are just friends super. I will be a friend for life, a shoulder to lean on no matter what.
I would like someone who has a few of my interests, but not all.
Exploration of life is what its all about right?
How about someone who is not self centered, or angry at the world too.
Life is too short to be pissed at everybody.
My religious beliefs are southern baptist. But I have not been in years.
Not a bible thummper but do have my beliefs. No G-Ding please.
I do smoke (ciggarettes), but am wanting to quit.
I drink socially and do tie one on every once in a while. Maybe once or twice a year.
Please be happy and like to laugh.
I am still not grown up, and act and feel yooung.
So if you are a grown up, or feel watching cartoons some times is silly then I am not for you.
I am here to find someone who wants to run through the rain barefoot with me.
Someone that knows love is hard to come by.
That isnt judgemental aboou t someones ideas or feelings.
I need a really good friend.

Well seeing as how I am shy, I would want to go somewhere quiet and romantic.
Maybe a nice Italian resaurant.
Would like to talk and get to know each other.
And if we feel things are ok with us maybe go for a walk on the beach, or by a lake/river.
Possibly sit and talk at a coffeehouse.
It would be best for us to go somewhere quiet and private.
So we could talk and not be interrupted.
Maybe a picnic for lunch.
yes a hug is appropriate on a first date.
If sparks are flying so hard they follow us with a fire extinguisher then maybe a kiss.