I SWEAR!! You just can't make a woman happy these days!!! I had a couple of women reject me because my photos made me look too fat (though they admitted to liking "LARGER" men) and now the last few that I've met have griped at me to post even more recent photos and complained that I look WAY TOO THIN in person! I promise to add new photos soon. I have now lost more than 100 lbs and feeling fantastic (though I wasn't unhappy before, I just feel better). Looking forward to finding that needle in a hay stack and it is probably you. I've met numerous nice and fun single ladies over the last year but still haven't made that CONNECTION! So, with all the optimism in the world, I am updating and refining my description and whom I am looking for. Single dad raising a fantastic 16 year old daughter and we are looking forward to her junior year of highschool and hoping it will be as fun as her sophomore year.. Love the outdoors and life itself. Incredibly easy to get along with. No drama. I had a good working relationship with my ex and she passed in February of this year and still remain friends with her family whom frequently come to visit my daughter and I. So if you are looking for drama, I am sorry to dissappoint you! I'm a hoot to be around....keeping everyone in stitches or I can put them in since I used to work in the ER LOL (is that El O El in Spanish?). One of the changes in my life recently is that I have moved into more specialized areas of the hospital after 14 years of ER and Ambulance work (though I still dabble in the ER when they need extra help and to keep my skills sharp). I have a huge heart to share with those around me, I am honest even when it may cost me, unbelievably nonconfrontational or jealous and not ashamed to show the one the one I'm with affection.
I hope to find someone whom does not drink heavily or do drugs. I am not a fan of huge VISIBLE tattoos. I prefer long hair but it is not a deal breaker (short hair just fits some). Nobody loves kids more than me but I'm at that point of my life that I don't want to go backwards and have children around the house after mine has moved out... a year or so younger is ok but not wanting to raise another young one. I like women who are down to earth and enjoy God's creations and occasionally slows down or stops to view them. The bar scene and dancing will never be part of my lifestyle but I can be flexible and appreciate live music performances. Liking sports (though I'm not a freak about it unless the Cowboys, Mavericks or Rangers are playing in the BIG ONE) would be a plus. I hope to find someone that was totally honest in their self description.
I don't make my initial decision on looks but if you say you are average, I expect to see that and it effects my opinion if we started off on a false claim. I know the descriptions are broad but I've had women contact me and be listed as thin only to outweigh me by 80 pounds. I actually prefer a curvy woman over rail thin! As for my new appearance, I am 6'1" and weigh between 180 and 192 pounds. I hope this will help decide if I am more in your spongeworthy range!! HEE HEE I do have a Harley and hope that you enjoy riding but I understand that it is not for everyone as mine only gets out occasionally and on a beautiful day. I enjoy my moped the rest of the time........NOT!! LOL That would make me look like a clown with a unicycle
shoved up my ass. Thank you so much for viewing my profile and I hope we are a perfect match. Please don't hesitate to write and say HOWDY.............or bite me (whichever is your style).

The answer would be different for each individual person. I can be creative but I also do not mind the woman's input. Maybe mud wrestling to see who pays for the meal or possibly head out to the lake to catch the submarine races!!!