UPDATE - 2009:

Hello,

I'm mainly here to find true friends for real life.

Someone for old fashioned things like - museum, dinner, cinema, live shows, tennis, salsa dance classes etc.

TIRED of online and fake "friends". To me action speak louder than words.

NOT into casual sex/married ppl/casual bdsm. Right now only friends - IF you can maintain that, then i will consider more. I say you as i find it's always ME putting in the effort and i'm simple tired of that. Even to build a friendship require effort on both sides.

If you're interested in connecting let me know :) I prefer to talk on the phone and then meet. From then on i DON'T do online/emails as i'd hope we can build a friendship that's more real than cyber.

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I like to believe that i'm open minded. I have a lot of insight and believe in planning for the day of tomorrow. I'm not always very impulsive and will check out things prior to making final desisions - guess some of that comes with life's experiences too.

I love anything (almost ) adventurous. I believe that actions speaks louder than words. I have a college eduction and enjoy intellectual conversations. I don't believe in "instant chemistry" as i think it takes time to build trust, rapport and with that chemistry can grow - though there can be a li'spark from the start

I'm NOT into casual sex. So - do not even bother if that is what you are looking for.

I'm not into married/attached men. So - if you are in this group - i am not interested.

I am a loyal person to my family and friends. I will apply patience in most cases and believe in second chances (depending on the situasion) - provided i get the same in return.

At heart i'm a warm person though you'd need to spend some time with me to get to know the real me. I enjoy someone that does effort for me - and i will do the same for someone.

I reply all emails. Thank you for sending me an email.

How about going out for a walk in the rain? I just love rainy day's. Going for a movie is also a good blind date ice-breaker - it just allows for innitial contact and we can plan another meeting thereafter.

I'm tired of "going for coffee" as it don't offer much excitement nor anything to break the innitial awkardness. I don't believe in hearing someone's life story with the first meet - neither do i want to be interrogated about my life story -- that'll come all in good time...with a wip and a bit of trust.. ''

I'm open to any other suggestion for a first date. Look forward to new idea's.