I'm interested in finding the right guy for me. I strongly believe that he'll be my best friend, so similar personality traits, interests and lifestyles is paramount. As such, I'm looking to hangout and have fun with like-minded guys. I'm easy going and not in a rush; yet, I am looking for something meaningful eventually. So, if we go out and you aren't him (or I'm not her), no big deal, it was a fun moment(s), which is the most important thing; enjoy life and have fun.

Ideally, I would like to meet someone who is well rounded and multi-dimensional. I am looking within the 29-35 age range as similar interests, ideologies, and lifestyles seem to differ as you get too much older/younger. As well, I am attracted to taller and bigger athletic men. So 6'1ft+ and 195+lbs, carried in an aesthetically pleasing athletic way, is what I'm drawn to. I'm also a sucker for great hair, straight teeth, and a gorgeous smile.

As for what I'm like: I'm really easy going with an ambitious fire to get off the couch and have fun. So, I like to get out of the house and do something engaging. Ultimately, I just want to see my date's true personality, which comes when relaxed. I'm not going to put on a front, but just be myself, hopefully you will too. I can honestly have an enjoyable time doing anything; it's all about the attitude one comes with. Moreover, I'm a go with the flow type of personality, letting the situation take whatever course it's going to take. I'll just enjoy the moment for what it's worth.

I'm really honest and straight-forward and I expect the same. If I ask you if these pants make my a$$ look fat, I really want the honest truth, even if my a$$ does look fat. However, while I am honest and expect it too, I do know what tact is and will be as nice as possible without distorting the intended meaning. This honesty concept is really important to me, as any relationship is doomed to fail without it, so please just be honest.

I am quick-witted and sarcastically funny, but I know when to be sincere. If you don't like sarcasm, even in jest, I am definitely NOT the right type of person for you, as I regularly dish it out. On a side note, I can take it too.

I take good care of my body and mind and would like to meet someone of a similar calibre, as I feel it shows an integral component of a person's personality and motivational drive. Just a heads up; I will not consider hanging with anyone that smokes or does drugs (even occasionally). It's not my type of lifestyle.

I'm very athletic, and play a wide variety of sports (some better than others). Even the ones I can't do very well, I'll get out there and do the best that I can, even if I look like a boob. The important thing is that I'll enjoy every minute of it and have a blast. I'm open to trying new things; yet, I do have some limits. I generally am a big, spontaneous, goof with an overwhelming amount of energy, but then, every now and then I like to relax and taker easy.

I'm someone who genuinely likes to do everything from all parts of the spectrum. I'm always down-to-earth and love a weekend of camping in my sweats and no make-up; yet, I also enjoy taking the time to get dressed to the nine's and letting my femininity shine through in a super sexy dress and some heels. Just a very diverse woman.

Anyone that knows me would tell you that I have a heart of gold. I'm a very sweet and caring individual. There wouldn't be a second thought in my mind to help family or friends out if it was needed. I live by the Golden Rule. I always treat others the way I want to be treated.

I'm just me right from the start. So in essence, what you see if what you get; a straight shooter. If you enjoy the mystery and chase of the game, I'm not right for you. If I enjoy your company, I'll say so. Yet, just because I say so, doesn't mean I'm expecting anything. I'll just go with the flow and if there's more, there's more, if not, there's not; no big deal.

Also, while most people try and hide their faults and pretend to be someone else, I refuse to do that. I'll just be myself and opening divulge anything that comes to the forefront of conversation; I'm not trying to impress and reel you in by trying to tell you what I think you want to hear. There is no point to that. It just wastes everyone's time. I'm just going to be honest and if you don't like what you hear, well, so be it; I'm just being completely open and forthwright. Plus, if what I'm about scares you off, I rather it happen right away than down the road. Yet, if you don't run for the hills when we first meet, you'll be pleasantly surprised as there are no negative surprises down the road, unlike with most people, when the truth finally comes out.

As well, I'm always happy and in a good mood. You will rarely see me without a smile. I'm also a very positive person. I can find the upside in even the most dismal of situations. If you constantly have a negative outlook or complain incessantly about life, we're not a match.

Furthermore, I am completely content with the single life. I'm perfectly happy with the direction my life is taking. It would just be nice to find that right guy to share it with; the key being, the right guy.

I do have a very busy life, but I am willing to make time for someone with whom I feel I have a connection. If you don't have the same sort of agenda, please don't waste either of our time.

Moreover, I'm open-minded and accepting to people's differences. As well, I don't believe I'm better than anyone; just may be living a different type of life. If you are closed minded, judgemental, think you are better than others, and ignorant, please don't send me a message.

So, that's a basic overview of myself. There is a lot more, but there is only so much typing a person wants to do. The rest will have to be found out the old-fashioned way.

Also, I know in detail what I'm looking for, just have to find him now. With that being said, if you message me and I don't feel like we'd have a connection, I'm not going to reply. It's not meant to be rude, it's just myself not seeing the point of chat without purpose.

I put a lot of thought into my profile and really only want to talk with people that took the time to read it. With that, if you want me to consider messaging you back, put "I've got a lovely bunch of coconuts" in the subject line. This way I know you read my profile and are responding because you feel we're a potential match.

Happy Fishing.

P.S.- I'm actually a Sagittarius (I clicked the wrong b-day month, which made me a Scorpio up above, and POF doesn't allow changes to your b-day after 2 weeks)

Honestly, I don't do well with the whole concept of 'dating'. It's just too fake and contrived generally. I would rather just hang-out. Go do something fun and active; doesn't matter what. Get to know you that way.