Never been much of a conformist, and dance to the beat of a different drum. No one on their deathbed ever wished they'd spent more time at the office, and the only regrets you should have are the things you've never done. On the other hand, you gotta eat too! And since eating is one of my favorite things, I do work hard... life is balance. My business is seasonal, so I get to spend a lot of my summer goofing off and traveling. I'm emotionally and financially stable, (not big on drama and debt free) baggage is carry on only.

I have two children, a girl 13, and a boy 14, that I adopted as a single mom when they were 3 and 4, and best thing I've ever done in my life. They've taken a major portion of my time and energy over the years, but now they're at an age where their friends are far more interesting than I am, I don't have to watch them every minute and find I have lots of free time to have a life again. So... here I am. I love to cook as long as I don't have to clean up after (that's what the kids are for, lol) and have never poisoned anyone. Am comfortable in a bikini, jeans or an evening gown, and can be dressed, packed and ready to go in ten minutes flat. Love to travel and explore off the beaten paths, dive, hike, ride my Harley, fine dining or a hole in the wall.

Not looking to date a slew of men, just that one special person and refuse to settle for anything less. You know what you want out of life and aren't afraid to get it. Someone I can trust and respect, because without that you have nothing. Must be able to hold intelligent conversation and make me laugh. (not necessarily at the same time) You have to love animals and at least tolerate kids, have a killer smile, got to be at least a little bit sexy, and good kissing skills are a must. I take pride in my body and expect the same from you. Oh...and if it's not too much to ask, it would be nice if you didn't live a thousand miles away and can support yourself.

Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.