divorced father of 3 boys, 1 left still living with me. i like to work when it's time to work and play when it's time to play. i tend to be a homebody, perfectly happy at home working around the house. i like to be happy going but i'm not big on injustice and nonsense (except for nonsense i like as i sometimes say). i've also had all the fighting and bickering and yelling i need for this lifetime and am all done with that.. i dream of meeting a sweet gentle woman around my age and area who thinks a little like me and might share the same interests.

the coffee or dinner in a public place is a given for first date i suppose.  let me know if you have a better idea.