Why am I here?
I meet plenty of people out and date a lot, but I think I may be ready to try something more serious and weed out the wastes of time and this is just one way to do that. I have been with some amazing women, but just haven't found love.

What about me?
I am a one of a kind, smart, funny, outgoing, wise ass and will do anything to make the people around me laugh. I just want to enjoy life by traveling, going out with my friends, and trying new things. I am very career focused. I currently work with students at a private university just outside Boston and am working on writing a book and pursuing a career as an author/motivational speaker. My dream is to have houses in Salem, Ma and Ft. Lauderdale, Fl and accumulate toys like jetski's and such. I just bought my first toy, a jeep wrangler. So if you don't like the outdoors and camping or water activities, then your boring and please stop reading. I vacation in Florida at least 3 times a year. Finally, I am always honest even if you don't like what you hear, but its better than lying right? Oh and I don't get possessive or jealous, I hear thats a good thing.

What am I looking for?
I have had many long term and short term relationships and have been single at times for up to a year. I have experienced it all and know exactly what I need and want in a woman. Recently my friends and I (guys and girls) were talking over drinks and we all had to go around the circle and name the top 5 (any order only 1 can be physical) things we want in out partner. My 5 were: 1. Attractive(leaving out the specifics as not to deter anyone on here)2. Has goals in life. 3. Is out going and can hang with my friends. 4. Supportive/affectionate. 5. Can hold a conversation/not be bored just sitting around. Anyone fit the top 5? I can be picky, because I refuse to settle, but it just makes me a very rewarding person to be with.

Up for a challenge? Lets talk

Do I sound like a jerk? You'll probably bore me ;-)

I like the basic dates. Drinks at a martini bar, drinks at a dive bar, ice cream, walk on the beach, bookstore, whatever we're in the mood for.