Separated (for good, I might ad. Will never let that awful woman back in my life). I've had a few years to get over it and get back to being myself. Looking for a woman who wouldn't mind a good man who is thoughtful and honest. I'm loyal and ever faithful, should you embark on a life-long journey with me. Looking for someone else with those same qualities. I really want to meet someone who believes that a couple should enhance each others' lives.I will remember your birthday and pay attention to your needs and wants. You should want to do the same for me. We should work together as a team.

I've been through a lot during my failed marriage, but I chalk it up to experience, and I don't carry any extra psychological luggage because of it.

I'm not into drugs, I don't smoke ANYTHING and I don't drink very often. I'm not interested in being with someone who uses illicit drugs, or drinks alcohol all the time. I do drink occasionally, but it's only like 2 or 3 times a year, which actually makes it fun! And if you can't be faithful, leave me alone!
Also, I'm not one of those guys who's always going to court & jail. I always have a job and a car. Liars annoy me, so hopefully if you want to contact me you won't be a liar.
I love music, mainly classic rock, jazz fusion and occasional classical. Favorite artists include Yes, Jefferson Airplane, The Beatles, Grateful Dead, Frank Zappa, The Who, Jethro Tull, Van Der Graaf Generator, Gentle Giant and The Mahavishnu Orchestra to name a few. Even though I enjoy a lot of the "hippy" music my days of getting high are long past! Really!!! I love a funny movie...Monty Python films are fun...I love "A Fish Called Wanda", "Don't Be A Menace To Society When You're Drinkin' Your Juice In The Hood", most Mel Brooks movies, The Marx Brothers, to name a few. I also like the Simpsons & Futurama.


My wife and I are separated and it's my personal goal to be divorced by the end of this year. I gave her "another chance" and she completely blew it. That was 3 years ago, and there is no chance of me even considering giving her yet another chance to rip my heart out of my chest and feed it to the rats!! I've moved on, and I'm ready to meet someone who is actually worthy of my affections. All I want is to be happy and share my life with someone who also wants to be happy!

By the way, I'll be uploading a more recent photo soon.I really don't look much different at all, but still...

I'm not looking for the female version of myself. That would be boring! We should have things in common, yet have some differences to spice it up. Once upon a time I was a Dead Head, following them all over NY, MA, RI, CT & VT. I guess I can be considered a former hippie. Music is still very important in my life. Having someone to enjoy it with would be a plus!

Let's meet first, then decide. Could be something simple, like dinner, or coffee/tea or whatever seems right at the time. Maybe meet on the top of a tall mountain and share a bowl of Cocoa Puffs!

Female
Age between 30 and 45
Live in United States
Live within 75 miles.
Must not be looking for Hang Out
Must not be looking for Friendship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not do drugs