Overall I offer an unique blend of extremes. I am as comfortable in the boardroom as I am with a tool belt strapped around my waist tackling almost any home improvement project. I am respectful and considerate in my dealings and treat everyone from CEO’s to porters with equal courtesy. Naturally astute and conservative but with a (paradoxically) adventurous and playful nature with a penchant for injecting fun and humour into almost everything I do.


Although confident, I am not arrogant nor pretentious, and won’t hesitate to disclose the gentler side of my persona. To many I am a teacher and a mentor, but I am also one of life's most inquisitive students. I love spontaneity, am creative, imaginative and curious and enjoy exploring and experiencing new places and things. I enjoy challenges and have difficulty with those that say "...it can't be done"

I cherish the company of a sincere kind hearted, affectionate lady that is comfortable with who she is. My ideal mate would be intelligent, feminine, sensuous, creative and well attired for any occasion or activity (be it with jeans or heels), she takes good care of herself and will have found the perfect perfume that accents the already irresistible nature of her allure. I am openly affectionate, love to touch and cuddle, am a great kisser and fill many silent moments with expressive non verbal communication...a gentle smile...a provocative wink...a blown kiss...a capricious smirk...a encouraging nudge...a reassuring nod...a gentle caress...a pensive stare...each of which tell you that I’m thinking only of you and that I want you to be with me. I will speak volumes to you from across the room as long as I can catch your eye. I will watch your every gesture, since some things cannot be communicated with words, and as I “listen to you with my eyes” I will "hear" you and understand what your lips could not share.

I believe that the most important place to touch a woman is...her heart, and am in quest for the feeling where I reach for a lady's hand but touch....her heart.

I am considerate and frequently put the needs of others in front of mine. I offer support and encouragement and expect the same in kind. I am physically fit and youthful in character and appearance with a level of stamina that begs to be challenged. Music stirs the soul and I enjoy a broad range of styles and musicians but none as much as nature's symphony of sound during a rainfall. I love the sound of rain and thunder. Storms are nature's symphony of the sky.

As for you...You are satisfied with yourself, are appreciative and passionate in all that you do. You are willing to follow and are capable and willing to take the lead but will mostly be by my side.

You will allow me to be proud of you. Permit me earn the right to be your hero and have the confidence to know that you are in good hands. Be passionate. Don't hold back! For the more that you give you shall receive double, if not more, in return. Maintain your love of family, heritage and culture as they are noble traits worthy of protecting and promoting. Find pleasure in simple things.

Do not be upset if you catch me watching you. It's not that I'm staring but rather I'm admiring you, even while you sleep. Be patient when your sleep is interrupted by a hug or gentle caress...it's just that I can't get enough of you. Be assured that if it's raining outside I will want to be by your side (there is something about the sound of rain that stirs my soul and wants me to embrace and arouse you).

Be spontaneous, surprise me with an unexpected visit during the day or a suggestion to take a trip to...say...Niagara on the Lake, and leave within the hour. Hug me for no reason whatsoever and let me hug you. Accept that at times you will be so irresistible that waiting to get home might not be an option.

Be daring...Be capricious...Be yourself.

Words to Live By... "If you fall into intimacy without resistance, despite your alarm, either you will fall into love, which is exquisite, or love will fall into you, which is more exquisite still" Martha Beck - from an article called “Lover’s Leap”

Ciao for now.

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No..not a first "date" but rather a first encounter...a chance to meet and explore.

It should be something comfortable for both of us and flexible to allow for a either a brief chat (in case we do not connect) or an mind numbing, heart warming marathon discussion that would flash by and feel like minutes . So what would we do...we could decide on a quiet morning stroll by the lake, or enjoy an espresso, cappuccino or latte in a shaded corner of a quaint cafe overlooking a busy promenade, or sip a glass of vintage wine or brandy in a secluded corner of a piano bar or visit a small town, country fair, museum, home show or a community event, each of which would offer a broad range of attractions or points of interest that in turn would provoke a variety of conversations which would permit us to explore each others areas of interests and passion. It would be wonderful if the enjoyment of each others company would make an evening's hours feel like seconds and we might (unintentionally of course) strain the patience of some poor waiter or waitress who would not see any hint of an approaching end to the captivating conversation that we would be engaged in. If perfect, our evening together would be sprinkled with generous doses of laughter, curiosity and a deep and captivating desire to spend more time together. Interested?