I am a widowed(2000)single father of 2 grown children. I am looking for a lady that is interested in a friendship/relationship that will hopefully grow into something that will last a lifetime. I am extremely family oriented, honest, financially responsible, and emotionally secure.

I am looking for a lady that has a BLAST, just being herself! I enjoy a woman with spirit. A lady that is comfy in a varity of social situations.

I realize that we will not represent a mirror image of one another. I am more then happy to share my interests with you and hope you will enjoy sharing, with me, the things that make you happy.

A little taste of my mindset: "That which doesn't kill me, will only make me stronger". "I do not argue or raise my voice, I discuss". "I avoid confrontation, believing that a win/win situation can always be acomplished through meaningful communication". "I am a man of simple needs, not a simple mind".

So ladies, if you would like to know more, feel free to contact me at your leisure!!"

First dates can be so problematic for alot of people. I, on the other hand, have a simple rule. I like to let the lady choose. This allows her to be in a setting that will result in her being comfortable in her surroundings. I believe this allows us to have a more relaxed and productive date.