I am an intelligent professional that is just at a point that I figured "why not" and thought I would see what was out in this sea of internet dating...
What are you looking for? I know what you "think" you are looking for; Stability, good family, movie star looks, blind ambition and money... but is that what you are really looking for?
What I realized is that I am looking for is a grounded man a man with the inner fortitude that matches his outer strength. A man that doesn't ever flinch at my success but instead cheers me on. A man that views me as an equal. A man that not only wants me as a woman but as an equal partner. A man that can make me laugh. A man that I can talk to about everything and nothing at all. A man that I just feel comfortable to be in a room with and not even "not" know how to feel that way.
So ok if you didn't understand what I was trying to say... here is the beer and pretzels version. I am intelligent but goofy so I expect someone that can respect that but also has the ability to "keep up" in a conversation. I am the type of person that can hang out at home all weekend and watch movies and "putter" if you have to be moving all the time, I am not the person for you. I love to read and can sit for hours with a book, if you are threatened by that and need me to pay attention to you then we are not a match. Not that I won't curl up with you while I read.
With that being said I have a teenage daughter that I spend alot of time with, 2 dogs and 4 cats. If that is something that bothers you its ok we all have our issues but you are warned up front. :)
Oh and if your baggage doesnt fit in the overhead compartment check it at the gate... We all have it,that is something I accept, what matters is how you handle it if I have to pay the price for what every other ex wife or girlfriend did to you I am not willing to play. Get a therapist.
so if you got to this point, I am 5'4" 140 size 6 brown hair(Short and I like it that way) Green eyes, I don't work out but I am in good shape. If this is all that concerns you then we have a problem, but let't be real physical attraction is important. I am attracted to dark hair and light eyes, average build (less than 200lb) and men that are above 5'8" I am not a stickler for it but hey I know what I like.
OH and if you are lying about your age etc or you don't have a recent picture (less than a year) please don't bother, what you see here is me. Updated regularly... who doesn't have a cell phone with a camera these days.I think it is a scary thought to make the first step in this based on a lie...
so if you still want to talk, please email me.
First dates... or first meeting in general need to be a in stress free mutal location that provide the opportunity to talk and get to know one another. DUH