"The more you lose yourself in something bigger than yourself, the more energy you will have." Norman Vincent Peale

"Living is a form of not being sure, not knowing what next or how. We guess, we may be wrong, but we take leap after leap in the dark".

"Faith is not simply a patience which passively suffers until the storm has past. It is a spirit which bears things with resignation but above all with serene hope".
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Relationships are all about showing up and doing what it takes to make it last. If you think that is what you want, please have the time and desire to be able to go "the distance". Will you be willing to make the journey with me to find all this out, or will your fool yourself into be captivated by a stranger? I HAVE BARED MY SOUL SO THAT YOU MIGHT FIND ME ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THIS SCREEN, SO SHOULD YOU CHOSE TO PURSUE MY SOUL - PLEASE TREAD SOFTLY AS I HAVE HAD MY SHARE OF THOSE WHO THOUGHT THEY KNEW WHAT THEY WANTED BUT WERE ONLY IN LOVE WITH THE IDEA OF "BEING IN LOVE".
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I am the warm smile and the deep hug you need to get thru the day. Im the shoulder you'll lean on for support the ear that will listen to you the heart that will understand you and the hand you'll hold as we enjoy life.I know YOU are out there walking the earth w/the emptiness in your heart that I feel in mine knowing that it wont go away until our 2 separate entities become 1 and I do believe that someday we will find eachother for I feel you coming closer w/every breath I take. I will know that it is you when I look deep into your eyes & I have to catch my breath as you reach out & touch me-our energies together will overwhelm us both. We will feel that we have just come home. I pledge to always strive to keep that feeling growing we had when we first met.I pledge to give you the gifts I have w/i myself, all my love wisdom insight power understanding nurturing compassion & strength. All these I share with you so that you may have all these w/i yourself in greater abundance! 1 + 1 IS MUCH GREATER THAN 2!
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To you.... my future soul mate....
Although we are apart & may never have met, those of faith say that within this world of space & time, we are already together, but just can't see it yet. So, to ease the pain of relentless time, I am writing this letter in hopes that it will somehow draw your soul to mine. Truth be known, I have looked for you and still do everywhere. In the streets, in my dreams... in the eyes of every soul I meet. I have spent this time apart from you alone, setting goals, realizing dreams and becoming the Lady I have always wanted to be. I have had many journeys within my life, ones that I will share with you. For someday I will also learn about what you have endured in your own path, while searching for me too. There have been many who have asked me who you are and what you stand for. My response to them has always been the same, that the man I love knows my worth and loves me more. All he asks I shall be....so he will always know that all he needs will always begin with me!

I dream of the day I will meet you - I long for that excitement. I can't wait for the day I get my first glimpse of you for real and hug you for the first of many times in your life. Every day I wish for you as I have so much I want to tell you. It is very hard to wait as I dream of our first meeting, first touch, first kiss, first hug. My hands feel so empty, I wish to touch you but I can't. I long to spend time in your arms. I want to share with you all of who I am, my hopes, dreams, wishes and desires. I want to comfort you when you need someone to just hold you and let you know everything will be ok. I don’t know what life is holding for us but I do know that I want to give it my best for you and me!

I try to make it a habit of doing the things that bring me closer to where I want to be. I grope blindly at times, but never stop reaching out toward what is waiting to be discovered. I try to surround myself with bright travelers, and follow their example when necessary, but do not allow myself to just be content to simply walk in their footprints.

I long to share the journey with someone with vision, but I have dreamed alone for long enough to know that they do not depend on others to be real and valid. Many see a portion of what I see, and some see them clearer than others, but my view is always clear even without seeing the reflection in someone else's eyes.

I look to no one to verify my existence, only one to share it with. I believe that we are all set on a path and no matter what happens that path does not change. Every meeting, every encounter and every accident happens for a reason. It is said that the eyes are the window to the soul but it takes a very special person to see the soul sometimes through joy, tears and even pain.

I do not plan to always walk alone, but if I must I can. I plan on listening to my heart, giving wings to my dreams, letting a higher power guide their flight, and keeping enough of my sanity during the journey to reap whatever rewards my dreams bring with confidence that they are fated and divine.
They say that one's best success comes after their greatest disappointments. So here I am. No stranger to life's disappointments or love's scars, but still willing to make the journey to find love & happiness. The most wonderful of all things in life, I believe, is the discovery of another human being - The love between two human beings is a most marvelous thing. A sort of "Divine Accident".....
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How I think....Your words are very important to me. They tell me you're interesting and interested. I can be a million things, but if you don't find me interesting in the first few lines, well then I think it's pretty safe to say that you won't stick around long enough to finish what I wrote, let alone a "LIFETIME". I like reading about a person. How an individual carries themselves in written thought, illustrates a lot about their character....about their heart. So perhaps it is only right that I am out there looking, to see whether or not I can find your heart.
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In Peace, Hope, Light & Grace...

(My Father's Daughter)

"To speak gratitude is courteous & pleasant, to enact gratitude is generous & noble, but to Live gratitude is to touch Heaven"

REMEMBERING TO BREATH....
This Morning I Awoke.....and my bed was trashed......
You have troubled my sleep and caused my thoughts to wander.
Everything I know and believe to be true could be dust with the touch of your hand. The day that I see you will likely cause me to spend every waking moment trying to make you mine...the life that I know is at risk, I should be afraid of You. I read your notes and they stop me in my tracks, just staring at the words, speechless, for days, this generally doesn't happen to me. What do I do about You...I didn't expect this! I glance at Your photo and smile. I can't believe what You have written, I just shake my head and smile. Words so real and at the next moment unbelievable. I am not afraid of You, but of my own hesitation to run into the night, to the path that leads to places that I can not see, to jump, close my eyes, make a wish and run, not to look back. I believe...I always have...there will be more.It is as though you are already before me, behind me, and surrounding me where I am. You are a haunting melody that one does not forget. Always on the edge on one's mind and heart.Yes it probably is true I am unrealistic, but then, again so are you. We recognize each other amidst the way station of humanity and meet here but once. I am honored to know you.
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Somewhere is he,to whom this is written..he who is comfortable in himself and his independence, unaware that he has captivated me already, he who moves in a world defined by its experiences, not its badges...he who cares little for pointless baubles yet maintains a loyal friendship with diamonds...he who takes away my breath and not my patience, laughs at my appalling jokes because they really are funny, captures my imagination because of who he is and not what he is trying to be, does occasionally get muddy, sweaty, wet or tired in public, does not possess an aversion to champagne, admits it all and wants to do it all over again the next day or week because he wants to and not because he feels he has to...he who mixes cashmere and leather, wears his oldest denim, a winter cold or nothing at all with infinite style...he whose kisses claim me...
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IN MEMORY OF "SK"
HOMAGE 2 A VERY SPECIAL MAN...YOU WILL ALWAYS BE THE TRUE IMAGO DEI-YOU LIVED YOUR LIFE WITH DIGNITY,HONOR,COURAGE AND BRAVERY, BECAUSE OF YOU I'M 4EVER CHANGED.MAY GOD PROTECT YOUR DIVINE SOUL..
Life Is A Gift..Today,before you think of saying an unkind word - Think of someone who can't speak. Today, before you complain about life - Think of someone who lost their life too early. Before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another, remember that not one of us are without sin. Life is a gift, Live it, Enjoy it, Celebrate it! Only a few remember what life was before, and who has always loved them and been there in every situation.

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