I used to be on this site for long term, now it's just for friends. I found someone, but recently that didn't just work out, and I am done with the long term crap for now. I am trying to get to know a lady that will make me interested in going out. Only on friendly terms, But if something happens, I won't stop it.


I'm 5'10, and I am a big man, but VERY agile for my size. Not too big though. Dark brown hair and eyes. I live here in Gary, Indiana, born and raised. But don't think just because where I'm from, I'm all "thugged out", because I'm not. I may dress that way, and get ignorant sometimes, but I'm far from being a thug. I love to chill with my friends, play video games, read books, things of that nature. I'm a home-body, but I do go out now and then. Just not a lot. I would pick chilling at the house over almost anything, any day. So if you looking for someone to hang with and all that, let me know.

Some other stuff
-I am a loner a lot of times.
-I don't smoke (well maybe once or twice if theres a celebration)
-I drink, but dont make a habit of it.
-I hate the club scene, I avoid it like the plague. Maybe will go if with my friends.
-I work out (but I've slacked of alot lately lol, i ain't obsessed to have a chiseled body and all)
-I get tongue tied a lot. My mind wants to say so much I end up muttering a a lot lol.
-Sometimes I give the impression that I'm a ruthless A-Hole who doesn't give a damn. Sadly, sometimes I really don't. But that doesn't mean I don't care most of the time.
-Love of video games is a major flaw I have. MAJOR. That's something I do like people who like to collect things.
-I like all types of music mainly rap from '87-'99, metal, and '80s music.......i HATE 90% of the music out today especially that crap like shoulder leanin' and 2 steppin.
-I don't "Party like a rockstar" so get the hell out my face with that.
-I wear durags and hats A LOT.
-I sleep.....A LOT.
-A lot of times I don't shave, so I end up looking like Wolverine. But I might change that.
-I stare off into space alot lol.
-I hate phones. I Hate Phones. I HATE PHONES. lol Don't give a number, 90% chance I won't call unless it possible to get serious. I find talking on the phone boring for the most part.
-I think artists like Tech N9ne, Bone Thugs n Harmony, Wu Tang, Phil Collins, Disturbed, Sevendust, and Bobby Brown are some of the greatest things to happen to music.
-I'm one of the few people like me that you would see playing Disturbed loud as hell.
-I'm usually real quiet, until I start to get comfortable, then I'm just all out nuts or so laid back you would think I'm high all the time.
-I'm not religious, so please don't preach belief and the word to me. I respect your beliefs by not trying to convert you, I ask that you do the same.
-If you are the clingy type, you will hate me most of the time lol. I find it annoying. I usually can't vibe with clingy women, but I don't mind you being clingy sometimes.
-I might seem angry after you read all this, but trust me, I'm not. I'm just putting everything of the table now.

I do have a daughter, so I'm not looking to have kids for a long time....ONE THING AT A TIME! lol. Not big on the marriage theme, not until I'm around 30 years old at least.

Now I can't lie, I use slang like crazy, but I can hold an intelligent conversation if I want to. So I'll go around saying things like "What Up Killa?", but don't think I can't hold my own in an intelligent convo.

Yeah, yeah I still play video games and watch wrestling(but WWE sucks though it's all about Puroresu!). So what? If you one of those people that don't like it, Don't say anything, and move on. I'LL GET OVER IT. Like Al Pacino says, "...........DONT WASTE MY MOTHERFU*KING TIME!!!"....Don't waste your own either.

And there will be alot of times where I prefer NOT to talk at all. Call me a lone wolf I guess. So don't get all sensitive, it's just I'm one of the few that actually get TIRED of talking. It won't be because of you unless you're being too annoying. And it's hard to annoy me....unless you telling me sh*t you should be telling your girls lol. I like to keep to myself alot.....peaceful that way. So if you love attention 90% of the day, this is one add you shouldn't be prospecting lol.

NOW, religion! It doesn't matter to me what you follow, I'm cool with everything. But don't try to preach to me. Just because I follow my own ways and 70% of it doesn't involve a creator, don't give me flak for it. It's just not me to follow a path the majority thinks you should follow, or burn......I rather follow my own path and if it's the wrong one at the end.....well....I'll find out won't I?


ONE MORE THING! Please don't mail me sh*t like, "What's good" and "Get at me"....give a reason why you sending mail. That sh*t is annoying and 2 steps from being ignorant.

I don't really plan ahead lol

what happened to just chilling at the home watching a good movie!?

I'm old school and I just do dinner, movie, and maybe chill somewhere. But if you're into something I really like, maybe we'll do something relating to that.