I've done this before and found a real life "Winner" yeah, read some sarcasm there, but hey, there are good guys out there somewhere aren't there? Oftentimes a pessimist, I refuse to be this time. I know nice guys exist. Hope to meet one. I was told I was a bit abrupt and harsh with my profile and I needed to "soften it up". But what can I say, I am straight to the point and honest. I don't play games and I say what I think. I am not "broken" so you don't need to try to fix me, but I could do with some "TLC", pampering and attention. So with that preface, I don't think I will change it too much after all. If you read this and like what you read, send me a note.

I am a single mom with 3 kids. 1 out of the house and 2 still at home, but one is on his way to college. I have raised my kids and am looking for someone for me, now. I am ready to start dating. I do not need another boy to raise. I know what I want out of life and I am looking for someone who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to say it or go for it. I am very open, honest and out-spoken. If you don't really want to know what I am thinking or the answer to the question you ask me, then do not ask it. At the same time, I want honesty in return. I love being outdoors, doing just about anything. I now have 2 paint horses; a 2 year old filly and a 3 year old gelding. I like going out to dinner, dancing or the movies. But I enjoy staying home for a movie, a bonfire or a good book, too. I am affectionate, but not into X-rated public displays. Cuddling on the couch, top of my list in the evening or winter!! Send me a note and I will tell you more. I could never begin to type it all here

PS>> PLease do NOT try to IM me with the POF IM. It never works for me. Send a note. I promise I will answer

WOW,a first date? That can make or break it all. I would be fine with dinner and conversation, or a day on the boat, a walk in the park, canoing. Go-carts or a bike ride (motorized or not. Time to talk and get to know each other. It would just depend on the person. . .